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Why Some Guys DUMP Ladies After A Short Relationship??

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Well! Well! Well! The question that haunts the minds of almost all the women and many of the men, is indeed thought-provoking. What are the reasons for a man dumping a woman, (and sometimes women doing the same with men)? When I asked this question to a white South African, she replied, “Men dump women because men are men and women are women”.

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Oh God! This intriguing and quite amusing answer really left no doubts in my mind about various unusual aspects behind this riddle. Let us discuss some of the basic causes for this Dumping act:

1) As we all know, that Men are famous for their over-excessive thinking habit and on the other hand, women are known for their out of the world thinking process. So, it has definitely something to do with the psychology of both men and women. I would like to take this liberty of saying that men start to think in their own unusual way when actually everything is going on very fine, on the other hand, women start their thinking process, when actually there is no need. Thus, both men and women are somehow interrelated as long as their mental abilities are concerned. But Men after a lot of introspection and being dumped for innumerable times, however, realize that instead of getting dumped, it is better to dump.

2) There is a phobia of commitment in men and to escape from this vicious circle of commitments, dumping is an effective solution. Also, if a man is used to get whatever he wants from a woman and suddenly the woman is asking for commitment, the man would not give any second thoughts about the relationship. Also, men don’t like to be pressurized for anything and especially not for marriage.

3) The ever enticing “SEX” also plays a vital role in breaking off a relationship, as the moment a man gets a feel of bad sex life, he would definitely say goodbye to the woman. (So, all you ladies out there! Even if you are having a terrible sex life but want to continue the relationship, then never let your man get the feel of how “impotent” he is, on the contrary, make him realize how “important” he is.)

4) The difference in Attitudes and Values also play a very significant role in men dumping women. As men usually don’t want a dominating spouse,(except sometimes in bed), however, if a woman completely subdues her attitude, then the man would find her boring as well as unchallenging. So, it is a double-edged sword.

5) Also “Infidelity” is an all very important reason for men dumping women. No living thing likes to be cheated and especially, men are too very concerned about the “faithfulness” of their spouse, but if they smell “something fishy”, then their next step would be to move on.

6) No Man likes a nagging partner, and many of the women are in the habit of doing nothing except nagging and nagging on. Men feel trapped in a water tight compartment just at the thought of their nagging spouse and just want to live their life with freedom.

7) Men usually just don’t like to be with someone over-possessive. Men, like every human being, want a bit of space and if they are denied this, then men dump women.

If women just keep in mind, these few important points, then no man would ever dump them. As women are the most beautiful creatures on this earth and as my friend said, “men are men”, so just have a chill-pill.

Source: Imo State Youths Facebook Page

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Opinion: If 1% of Uganda’s Population Started Mining Bitcoin, UEGCL Would Have To Construct A New Dam Every 2 Months

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By Ian Ortega

It is now clear that there is no escaping the Bitcoin revolution. Bitcoin is here to stay, and so is Blockchain, the technology upon which Bitcoin runs. Yet even more scary is the power consumption that is used up in the Bitcoin mining process.

An individual bitcoin transaction is estimated to use up 300kwh of electricity, an equivalent of boiling over 30,000 kettles of water.

Current global Bitcoin energy usage is 0.13 percent of the world’s electricity consumption. According to Joel Bellenson, at Bitcoin’s current growth rate of 30% per month, Bitcoin mining energy consumption will exceed global solar energy production before the next Christmas. “It will take 25 months until Bitcoin mining completely eradicates human civilisation,” he notes. “25 months at current bitcoin mining energy growth rate of 30% per month before mining exceeds 100% of all the electricity on the planet.”

The bitcoin users are estimated to be peaking towards 18 million, as per those with a Bitcoin wallet. As per UETCL records, “Uganda’s peak power system demand currently stands at 500 MW against an installed generation capacity of 851.53MW.”

This implies, that if 1% of Uganda’s population were to start mining bitcoin, UEGCL would have to construct a new dam with the same capacity of Karuma every 2 months. And this should be a very scary thought for the Electricity bodies as Bitcoin could prove to be a bigger threat to energy usage than anything.

But is UEGCL prepared for such an eventuality? Would it cope if Bitcoin mining and transactions became the order of the day in the country? Probably this may not happen. And we could see a country coming to a total standstill. The country then may surely need to open up conversations about Bitcoin and Blockchain.

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OPINION: It is time for Gospel Artistes to break out of their shell and shine

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Judith Babirye is one of the leading gospel artistes in Uganda

By James Propa

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It is evident from several digital music selling platforms that comparatively gospel music is one of the most selling genres of music in the world. However it is evident in Uganda, most gospel artists tend to lock themselves in serving ‘the converted’ than serving the entire market.

It is also true that however much there is too much politics in the music industry, there is equally too much politics in the churches and this further reduces the audiences to which the gospel artists promote their music. This also affects the turn up at their concerts.

With this kind of politics hitting you up from both angles, there is absolutely little room to shine and benefit from your career.

Don’t you find it quite terrible that in 2017, we have only had 2 gospel artists staging relatively big concerts? Hon Judith Babirye and Levixone at the Museum. What is common about these 2 is the way they tapped into the radio stations and opportunities that are not driven by religion.

It is time for other gospel artists to start creating universal content using simple language that even non-believers can understand and like. This is when they will become happy and also have an opportunity to own mansions and sleek cars like their counterparts doing other genres of music.

Get out of your shell and shine!

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Is B2C Manager Andy Events Surpassing Jeff Kiwa in Talent Management?

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By Staff Writer

For the past years, Jeff Kiwa has established himself as one of the best artiste managers we have in the industry, having  worked with top artistes like Jose Chameleone, Radio and Weasel until 2015 when he started Team No Sleep, consisting of Sheebah, Pallaso (who later left), Bakri and Akay (RIP) among others.

However with the growing Ugandan music industry, other talent managers have emerged and are giving the Team No Sleep boss and others a run for their money.

B2C soldiers manager Andy Events is one of the new talent managers on the block that have proved to be a genius in the music business.

While Jeff Kiwa’s Team No Sleep is falling apart, Andy Events has got his groove on and seems to have a lot more to offer.

 

Three years ago, few people knew about the B2C but Andy Events has made them stars and kept them among the fan’s favorite for the past two years, something that makes us believe that at this rate, he could beat Jeff kiwa at his game if the later doesn’t pull up his socks.

Despite having an impressive record of turning young artistes into stars, Jeff Kiwa has failed at maintaining a good artiste-manager relationship. It will be remembered that Jeff has fallen out with Jose Chameleone, Radio and Weasel, Pallaso among others.

Andy Events on the other hand has been able to keep three talented artistes (B2C) together and also maintain a good relationship with them. Anyway the true narrative will be written over the coming years.

 

 

 

 

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