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What do women really want?

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wantListening to my girlfriends speak may be compared to listening to a broken record or a song on repeat mode. It’s like they all share a relationship with the same man. “He doesn’t care about my feelings, he doesn’t love me ,he’s always hanging out with his boys instead of spending quality with me, he’s a cheap bastard, he’s not spontaneous’…the list goes on and on; you know the drill.

So I ask myself, is there anything such as a ‘perfect’ relationship or even something close to that? Or do women kid themselves by imagining there is one out there? And so I lend a sympathetic ear hoping that a conclusion to the problem will soon be reached.

For one, I know that women have always been viewed as very complex creatures. I agree with that but I still hold on to the fact that they are the most understanding and sensitive people in the world. Ask anybody.

Being complex only makes them more interesting and mysterious. But men sometimes seem to have an opposite reaction to that and interpret it for being stubborn, insecure, selfish or even clingy which is at times not the case at all.

Then the question is; what do women really expect from men in a relationship?

The key to that is to understand what your woman really expects from you. One thing men should know is that WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME AND WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. They may have the same tastes in clothes, laugh the same, talk the same, argue the same, have same interests, even same hairstyle but they will never have the same personality or what we call the ‘inner person’. I can try and sort of prove this.

Take your love life for instance. Do you see a definite pattern or do you see a different one between your current girlfriend and the previous one? Leave alone the physical attributes, I mean emotional or psychological.

(If your girlfriends have a pattern then you must be a special case).But what you’ll see is that men will never settle for the same kind of girl twice. There will always be a unique difference between his ex and his current.

Step number three is maintaining the pace. So yes you have managed to win her heart, you have catered to half if not all her needs and she is happy. That is not the end. In fact, that’s where I think men slack all the time. The winner is not always the keeper. Men in a relationship seem to get bored easily and forget the fire they started with in the beginning. It’s even worse if you are in a marriage and the oil just gets burned out like that. You stop being romantic, spontaneous, a GENTLEMAN (emphasis on this), caring, or even adventurous in bed. The man who you were before dies an eternal death; it’s like an act before the curtain finally closes down. That should never be the case, do not let that happen if you truly love or adore the woman who’s in your life. Experiment on stuff. Be interesting. Keep her guessing. I’m sure if this was the case the number of divorcees would reduce drastically…don’t you?

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Bae @31: Bad Black bosses with a seductive photo album at her 31st birthday

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By BigEyeUg Team

Whenever the annual calendar clocks to the 5th day of July, social media is buzzed with birthday wishes to Kampala City socialite, Shanitah Namuyimbwa alias, Bad Black.

Bad Black is fond of taking up the day in the news without anybody’s favour but instead on merit of possessing one of one of the highest numbers of following.

Today, Shanitah marks her 31st Anniversary in life and she has got to pomp it in style with a huge volume of photos where she appears at-ease with friends.

The photo album also features her cozy and imminent moments with boyfriend Sky West.

Bad Black and boyfriend, Sky West kiss

She has even run out of words to explain God’s blessings’ abundance to her and territory at an age of 31 because she looks better despite blooming a late age.

Lord am so grateful. 31yrs today it looks good on me. If you indeed bless me & in large my territory,” she wrote.

The mother to three is also astonished by her aging like fine wine and compares herself to an Egyptian goddess.

See how at 31yrs Aging like fine wine no competition but accept am Egyptian goddess,” Black adds.

Unlike her past birthdays where she has hyped the parties with glamorous designs and valuable gifts brought by friends and family, Bad Black is expected to celebrate this in a scientific way, owing to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Here is Bad Black’s full photo album;

Happy Birthday Bad Black!

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Guitarist Charmant Mushaga quietly suffering from depression after breakup with wife Sandra

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By BigEyeUg Team

It’s such a devastating moment for Prominent Congolese guitarist, Charmant Mushaga Buhendwa as he continues to trail his life through a heartbreak after his wife, Sandra Klonka dumping him.

This website has come to learn about the Uganda-based Zaire born musician’s marriage status after he went public to disclose how his relationship with the Hungarian woman doomed just within one year after their wedding.

The Afrigo Band instrumentalist’s revelation comes in after accumulating uncountable messages in his inbox, congratulating him upon his initial wedding anniversary, which in reality he didn’t achieve.

Today I decide to make it clear to all that knew and saw some changes that happened in my life on the 19th of June 2019.

This whole week I’ve been receiving messages in my inbox congratulating me for my first Wedding Anniversary,” he wrote.

In deep sorrow, he says that the matrimonial vows he made with Sandra on 19th June 2019, failed just after 4 Months from the wedding.”

Well on a sad note I regret to say that our marriage failed 4months after our wedding. It’s a long story but it is well,” he added.

Charmant also shared his love woe with Sandra on his WhatsApp status.

You were once my happiness and today you are my greatest sorrow, I wish I never met you, my heart would be at peace …….goodbye Sandra.

Charmant and Sandra got married in a civil suit at the Uganda Registration Services Bureau and had only one child together.

Keep strong Charmant!

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Salvado and wife Daphine showoff their baby for the first time

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By BigEyeUg Team

Babies are like little suns that, in a magical way, bring warmth, happiness and light into our lives.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.

Comedian Patrick Salvado and wife Daphine Frankstock are enduring the best moments of their marriage with newly born son, Alexander Idringi Dawa.

Salvado and wife Daphine

Daphine gave birth to baby Alexander was born on 1st July 2020, mid this week.

The couple has paraded a photo of their baby for the first time on-line.

Salvado, Daphine with baby Alexander

Salvado and Daphine have been such an adorable couple since they legalized their relationship in 2019.

With a new job at hand, the Ombokolo born comedian is eager to widely open his wallet, enticing his newly born baby and wife.

We will keep you posted.

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Jose Chameleone’s daughter, Ayla Mayanja graduates

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African music legendary Joseph Mayanja aka Jose Chameleone continues to prove unstoppable when it comes to heaping success in life.

For years now, his hard work and success are undisputed and blessings from God are continuously upon him.

Chameleone who has just of recent been celebrating his daughter Alba Shyne Mayanja’s first holy communion is yet again in barrows of jubilation as his eldest child, Ayla Onsea Mayanja graduates.

On receiving the good news, the self-proclaimed ‘Music doctor’ stormed social media and congratulated his daughter Ayla upon hitting the milestone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja

He is also desperate to meet his daughter once the COVID-19 Pandemic lockdown is lifted.

Congratulations and enjoy your Graduation day my daughter #Ayla keep shining. See you soon when we breakdown the Lockdown,” wrote Jose Chameleone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja is singer Jose Chameleone’s firstborn from his first love Griet Onsea a.k.a Dorotia. The two were together in 2002.

Jose Chameleone and the Belgian lady’s strong affection for each other is said to have started in Nairobi after the singer had recorded his first hit songs in his career.

The two relocated to Uganda where their bonding grew heftier and they were blessed with a baby Ayla.

Jose Chameleone and Dorotia during their hail days

Chameleone’s relationship was showy and a heaven mission for them to an extent of the singer recording a song dubbed ‘Dorotia’, hailing her above any other women on planet.

Regrettably, the relationship didn’t last that long for yet undisclosed reasons as they parted ways just immediately after Ayla was born.

This was followed by Dorotia’s repatriation back to her home country together with the baby Ayla.

Since then, the ‘Lord Mayor to-be’ has lived an overseas life away from his child with doomed hope of ever meeting her again in his life.

At the age of 18, Ayala’s focus is majorly into Art, Photography, Fashion and Design field where she developed strong adoration at her tender age.

She last resurfaced on social media when she was celebrating her 18th Birthday on 28th May 2020.

Congratulations Ayala!

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