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How To Impress On A First Date

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Imagine if we could get an easy-to-follow blueprint that covers the big relationship moments we all face, and keeps it simple. Sounds good, huh? Well, if there were such a thing (written by him, for you), that could see you both through those tricky moments that life, and love, throw your way, this is how it would look. Brian Alexander gives us the skinny on how to impress him on a first date…and how most definitely not to.

Speak
Women accuse men of only talking about themselves, but maybe we’re just trying to fill the empty conversation space. “I’ve been out a few times with women who seemed open and friendly until I asked them to dinner,” reports Noah. “They sit there and don’t say a word. They make me feel like they either don’t want to be with me in the first place or they have nothing to say, which is lame.”

Be Smart
No doubt some men – maybe many men – are intimidated by smart women. But brains are sexy! (Glasses are too, but maybe that’s just me)

Be sexy, but not that sexy
“I thought she’d expect money to change hands by the end of the night,” replied Rob when I asked him if a woman had ever dressed up too much for a first date. “I spent the night watching men watch her and worrying I’d wind up in a bar fight defending her honour.” Remember this: We are attracted to you or we wouldn’t have asked. So we already think you’re sexy.

Pay attention
Don’t take phone calls! “I’ve had women sit across the table from me and take three, four, five phone calls or check their BlackBerrys,” my friend Abe reports. “They always say, ‘Sorry, it’s work,’ as if that made it ok.” Turn your mobile off, look him in the eye and have a conversation. This is called courtesy.

Don’t sleep with him on the first date
You are not hearing this from me, got it? Yes, we may try to sleep with you on the first date. But when I’m sitting and thinking about it rationally, coolly, without having had three glasses of wine with a woman wearing a miniskirt and Louboutin heels, I think of my first date with Elizabeth when, after a beach picnic, we made it as far as her bedroom, lips locked, faces flushed, and she broke off the kissing. She smiled at me and said, “I’m not sleeping with you.”
“Ever?” I said.
“I didn’t say ever.”
“Ok,” I said, “how about I leave, then knock on your door and we call that our second date?” That didn’t work, but I admired her ability to set a boundary and her challenge to me to overcome it. A game? Maybe. But I came back for a real second date, then a third, and she made me glad I played.

 

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Hajji Haruna Mubiru Stuck In Domestic Violence Accusations

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By BigEyeUg Team; Kream Production CEO Hajji Haruna Mubiru is drowning in deep waters after being landed into domestic accusations by fellow singer, at the same time girlfriend Kemirembe Sarah aka Kemi Sera.

According to Kemi Sera, she was blindfolded by the extreme intimacy that Hajji Haruna bathed her during their relationship infant stages not until when everything overturned over out of the blue.

The ‘Malala’ singer reveals that Haruna acts inflicted deep pain on her as it prompted her to resort to alcoholism, something she had never opted for in her entire life.

Women are like babies; its easy to lie to us. When a man says he loves you, you see like you have reached, you can’t even think about the time of breakup. Haruna used to beat me up, he used to accuse me for sleeping with other men, made up many fake stories about me, he hurt me a lot and it even pushed me into drinking alcohol,” Kemi said.

Hajji Haruna Mubiru and Kemi Sera

She is also worried of Haruna’s status of being older, popular, rich and more established than her because this might cover up her reality story from public attention and help if any.

 “I have been Hajji Haruna’s wife but not anymore, just know I started that relationship with someone who is much older, popular, rich and established than me, so I had to fight a lot for myself.” she adds.

Sera thinks maybe Haruna’s decision to dump her might have been made after her getting an accident that got her badly injured in her entire body.

He dumped me when I got an accident, I don’t know, maybe he saw that I wasn’t looking beautiful anymore or my face wasn’t that appealing. I really don’t know,” she further states.

Kemi Sera’s sustained injuries after nasty accident.

Kemi is in line of female celebrities such as Anita Da Diva, Weasel’s girl-friend Talia Kassim among others that are good victims of domestic violence.

Apparently, Kemi Sera is seeking for help from prominent herbalist Maama Fiina after accumulating rent arrears that may lead her from being evicted from her house.

The two have often denied having an affair until now when Kemi Sera is accusing her former music boss of brutalizing their bedroom matters.

We will keep you posted

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Galaxy FM’s Prim Asiimwe Heaps Up Love Praises For Hubby Alex Muhangi

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By BigEyeUg Team; When we talk about one of the most silent celebrity couples in Uganda is that of fabled comedian Alex Muhangi and radio personality Prim Asiimwe.

Trust me, the two have overly expressed nothing like love nimiety in public like its fond-of majority of the celebrity couples.

However, for the first time in public, the Galaxy FM radio presenter has showered the Comedy Store Uganda CEO with praises for being the best man of her dreams.

Speaking at a local TV interview, Prim consented Alex as a responsible, hardworking and darling husband in their relationship journey.

He is a loving, caring, and calm man. He often spends most of his time home trying to improve his work and family. Alex has never disappointed and disrespected me but instead lit my life,” said Prim.

Alex Muhangi and lover Prim Asiimwe

It should also be noted that ever since the Slim-penciled radio presenter graduated from Cavendish University with a Degree in Journalism and Mass Communication, she has been promised a double dowry by the husband.

The two are smoothly strolling a six-years relationship with only one child blending their love.

What a lovely couple this is!

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I Undress My Bra When Am With Chosen Blood – Winnie Nwagi Confesses

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By BigEyeUg Team; Ugandan bootylicious songstress, Winnie Nwagi has finally opened-up what continuously keeps her down-to-the-wire with male singer Chosen Blood.

In her latest social media post, the ‘Jangu’ has not taken it lightly as she confessed her feelings being uncontrolled to a “bra-off” extent whenever she gets close to Chosen.

“How can I be with him and I put on a bra?” wrote Winnie Nwagi.

Winnie Nwagi and Chosen Blood

The ‘Yitayo’ singers have overly been spotted in cozy sessions despite insisting with unclear remarks regarding their relationship until today when Nwagi pulled out a master card on it.

Can we be contented that it’s merely a bra-off affair? well we shall keep you posted incase their intimacy unfolds.

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Fille: I Quietly Lived An Abusive Relationship

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By BigEyeUg Team; Songstress Fille Mutoni’s longtime hidden love story continues to sink pain deeper in hearts of majority of the public.

This has greatly ruined morale and hope for fresh couples in love as they come to realize that her song ‘Fall in love again’ was based on a true story.

One of the most tearful bit is when she unmasks prolonged domestic violence from her baby daddy MC Kats despite her refuting to open up to any authority or relative.

Fille Mutoni

Fille says one of the reasons as why she would never forgive the NBS TV presenter is violating her rights as a woman and disrespecting her amidst all the pain she holds as the mother of his daughter.

She also promised to bare the sweat and responsibility of her daughter until she grows up.

However, MC Kats has since paid a deaf ear to Fille’s allegations to date.

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