A good kisser makes for a good lover! How true is that statement? It is debatable right? Well, it’s been said before that you can tell what kind of a lover a man is or his sexual potential by the way he moves his body on the dance floor. In which case, a man with passionate dance moves is said to be a passionate lover…debatable but I would concur. On that kissing debate I would agree that a man can be a good lover potential by his ability to express himself sexually through kissing. A good kisser will determine a lot regarding the future of a relationship!
Kisses should be enjoyed fully by both partakers therefore, a good kisser will be patient, soft and gentle hence he will make for a good lover (who of course should be patient, sensitive and gentle.) Good kissers/lovers pay attention to the woman’s response to the kiss and will be patient enough to figure out what the woman wants, loves and what makes her feel desired. But then again this is debatable considering there could be a possibility that one is a good kisser because they’ve had a lot of practice but they could still be lousy lovers.
It may not be scientifically proven but I do agree that a woman can judge a man’s love and sexual potential by the way he kisses. I mean it goes without saying that a clumsy kisser (one who kisses like he’s attempting to eat your face and leaves you slobbered…see the above image…) is also clumsy in bed.
The way a man kisses can tell you if the man is:
1. Attentive
People are different hence they prefer things differently. While some women won’t really care if you eat their face while in an intimate kiss because that’s what they know as good kissing, some really prefer it softer and gentler. But if you want to tell if a man will be attentive to your needs, he will try and find out if you enjoy his kisses and even ask for pointers here to find out if you are comfortable with his kissing style or not because kisses are supposed to be enjoyed. An attentive man will not assume that he’s God’s gift to all women’s lips.
2. Comfortable with intimacy
Passionate kisses help you share a special bond hence some effort needs to be put in it. A good kisser will put his whole self into a kiss. At the same time a kiss should make you feel desired, wanted and adored. So when your man kisses you and you can feel all that, then by all means you can rest assured that your man is comfortable with being intimate with you. A man who kisses like he has a gun pointed at his head and wouldn’t bother to go into the kiss at full throttle should give you a sure sign that you will have intimacy issues in the near future.
3.Sensitive
There are men whose idea of kissing is him doing all the work meaning he shoves his tongue way down your throat and tilts your head to the position he feels he’s comfortable with and what with leaving your face all slobbered? Such a kisser should give you a clear sign that he will not be sensitive to your feelings. It will always be about him and his needs coming first. Kisses should generate the same passion and the two people partaking in a kiss should be at the same level. So when you find a kisser who is only about fulfilling his desires and his passion only then be sure that he’s not the sensitive type.
4. A control freak
Once in a while the man should let you plant soft, intimate kisses on him the way you feel comfortable and let you take charge. It shouldn’t always be about him taking charge grabbing your face and slobbering you with kisses and letting you gasp for air almost all the time. A man who will enjoy letting you kiss him and even let himself learn from you shows that he’s an easy guy who is all about equality.
5. Into it/ into you
You can tell if a man is really into you by the passion you both feel from a kiss shared. A good kisser will tease your senses, he kisses your earlobes, plant little kisses on your face and other parts that feel good with the touch of soft lips. If he enjoys the kiss as much he enjoys kissing you then he probably does enjoy you. A man who is into kissing you could be a definite sign that he’s into you and he’ll enjoy you. If the kiss is bad and feels like it’s being forced and you can’t wait for it to just end then chances are he’s just not into you or he doesn’t enjoy you.
6. A jerk
There are men who are such rough kissers and while they’re at it with the roughness they grab you all over inappropriately and try to fiddle with your zipper or try to yank your skirt. Arrrghhh! Be sure that such a kisser is in it for other things and is not in the least bit looking for something long term. He’s probably just a hit and run and will always be sure to call you up when he needs to ‘hit’.
This is not the Bible truth and the good news is that even a bad kisser is trainable and all that is needed is an open mind. By all means kiss and be kissed because kisses are so important.
Source: Capitalfm.co.ke