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What to do when he’s really bad in bed

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Even though what happens between the sheets is only a fraction of what makes a fulfilling relationship, still — it’s a pretty important fraction. You might think the only options are to bruise his ego or continue bruising your vajay-jay, but there are plenty of ways to go from sparklers to fireworks in the sack.

Your gut reaction might be to scream, “What the f*** was that?” Resist the urge. Get dressed, limp out of the room and collect your thoughts. Here’s how to decide the best course of action for your relationship (pun intended):

Do some digging

In other words, don’t just focus on the act — take into consideration what happens leading up to the act that might be impacting his performance. For example, does bad sex happen after too many cocktails or not enough sleep, after a long day at work or during a tight deadline? Then, make adjustments.

Define what “good sex” is for you

You have to know what your definition of “good sex” is — how else will you be able to transition from “no” to “oh” in the bedroom? “I ended up marrying the guy who was terrible in bed because I thought it wasn’t that important,” says Donna. “Oh, how wrong I was!”

“Our bodies all respond differently to various sexual stimulation,” says Carol Anne Austin, sex educator and psychotherapist for Kimberly Moffit and Associates. “It’s really important to let our partners know what we like and listen to what their preferences are.”

Don’t start finger-pointing

“You’re in this together, so make it about the two of you, not a finger-pointing session where you list his downfalls,” says relationship expert April Masini. Chances are he’ll have a complaint or two as well — make any sex discussions you have a proactive, two-way street.

Choose a neutral location

“Always discuss sex outside the bedroom so you don’t tie negative feelings to your respective homes,” says Masini. “Negative feelings about sex will sabotage good sex.” Go for a walk or drive together and find a quiet place to communicate.

Don’t make it sound like a sex lecture

Instead of turning the issue into an educational discussion that might scare his penis away entirely, just chat casually — and periodically — throughout your relationship to recap and become closer. “Recount memories of sexual experiences you’ve had together and the specific things you found to be exciting,” says Austin. “This can be a great way to open up about your preferences while keeping your partner’s ego intact.”

Read to each other

Dive into the wide world of erotic fiction, read to each other your favorite passages and use them to experiment — while indirectly sharing what piques your interest most.

Don’t fake it till you make it

“If you’re faking your O, then your partner will think he’s doing a great job and will keep doing what he’s doing,” says Austin. It’s completely OK to not have an orgasm, especially when you’re still getting to know each other’s preferences. It really can be as simple as saying, “This is what I like,” and “This is what I don’t.” There’s no need to make it personal.

Break up

Even after pointing out where improvements could be made, Belle found her lady parts were still being ravaged by her boyfriend — and not in a good way. “I jumped out of bed and yelled, ‘You’re hurting me! I’ve told you this before!'” His reply? “I forgot.”

Source: SheKnows

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Zahara Totto opens up on why her relationship with ‘Big Papa’ failed

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Next Media, Zahara Totto is still mending a broken heart after breaking-up with Nigerian money bag, Don Solomon Ugwu aka Big Papa (Oga).

The ‘Uncut’ TV show host’s one-year affair with Don Solomon was confirmed done and dusted on Monday, 10th August after a bitter fight between the two lovers.

However, Zahara has since taken it to her Snap chat account spilling all the unbearable circumstances that sparked their misunderstandings.

The motor-mouthed TV presenter, narrates that all went wrong in her relationship when she found-out that boyfriend, Big Papa was sleeping around with other women.

She reveals that her efforts in resolving the issues together with hubby all ended in vain after he refuted all claims of cheating.

He instead continued sharing their bed with all kinds of city girls.

The mother-of-four also says Big Papa is disrespectful, non-developmental, adds no value to no one, among others, and that’s why she never regrets breaking-up with him.

Zahara further says she can’t take his behaviors anymore or stand him because he is disgusting.

Here is her statement in full;

Allow me tell you a short story. I have been busy working the anus decided to sleep with every slut who cares to open their legs to him thinking they will get rich from him! Such low thinking brains!

Am a one-man woman, and when I found out that’s the case I tried to talk to him so we solve things where it had gone wrong as I didn’t want the relationship to end! But the anus used that to his advantage to continue with his Ashawo behavior of sleeping with more sluts.

I was in Love cos we have been together for a year now! Didn’t want it to lose /

my man! But all in vain. The anus is disrespectful, non-developmental, adds no value to no one, etc.

He is threatening me right now for exposing is bleached jik pussy selling bitch who has worked so had to see that me and the anus separate. I can nolonger take it in anymore! I can’t stand him anymore! He disgusts me.

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Video: Zahara Totto beaten by hubby, Big Papa before bitter split

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The sudden breakup between NBS TV’s Zahara Totto and her boyfriend, Don Solomon Ugwu alias Big Papa (Oga) continue to surface with more secrets spilled regarding their one-year old relationship.

Issues seem not light at all as we may have earlier anticipated, for the motor-mouthed media personality after another video storming social media today showing a bitter fight between Zahara and now ex-boyfriend, Don Solomon.

In the video, the mother of four is seen ridiculously nagging and clinging to her boyfriend as she begs him not call it quits in their relationship.

She is later thumped to the ground continuously by Big Papa giving her no chance again in his life.

The fight is most-likely to have been a continuation of the leaked audio where Oga was hectically trying to conclude his affair with the ‘Uncut’ show host.

Watch video here;

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Sheilah Gashumba’s relationship with boyfriend, Gods Plan on the rocks

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It seems our favourite young celebrity couple Sheila Gashumba and boyfriend GodsPlan are taking a break. Just days after city socialite Ali Marcus alias Godsplan came out on his Snapchat to reveal his break up with his long time fiancée Sheilah Gashumba, it is now clear that the two have let go of each after deleting their pictures as couple on instagram.

According to information gathered, the two who had many pictures of each other all over instagram surprised their fans when they deleted pictures of them as couple leaving their own singles.

It is said that the two love birds had reached the darkest part of it all after they both started hitting at themselves with allegations of infidelity which forced God’s plan to announce their splitting. “I can confirm me and lil stunner have parted ways,” he said.

Sheilah and God’s plan started dating three years ago and have been able to live in the spotlight as a young celebrity couple. The two have been known for living a lavish lifestyle with trips and vacations. They have been able to do things together regardless of their fights.

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Comedian Chiko officially introduced by his fiancée

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Following what the weekend had in store for Uganda’s stand up comedian Frank Mubiru better known as Chiko of the Madrat and Chiko duo alongside his fiancée Ophra, it’s clear that the two are now one.

On Sunday the 9th of August, Ophra an employee with the Civil Aviation Authority officially introduced Chiko to her family in a ceremony which was attended by his friends and family.

With excitement, Chiko shared a picture of himself kneeling down proposing to Ophra his fiancée accompanied with a caption; “LOVE is a journey starting at FOREVER ending at NEVER ….Finally”

Chiko was smartly dressed in an African Designed trouser and a long sleeved shirt.He also added shades which gave him a cool look. His fiancée Ophra pulled it off with simplicity and beauty.

However, the function was attended by a few people due to the restrictions put by the government following the outbreak of the CoronaVirus.

We wish them all the best.

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