The statement, ‘Do what you want,’ really means just that when a guy says it. There is no hidden agenda or secret read-between-the-lines meaning that you have to search for. Although we do know what men want – most of the time – there are some things that men just don’t care about. And by that they don’t mean that they don’t care about it in a mean, non-caring manner, just that it doesn’t figure in their priority list. So save yourself the trouble and let go of these 9 things that men genuinely don’t care about.
1. Your morning face: Hopefully this will put a lot of us at ease. Guys admit to not really caring about those smile lines or tiny wrinkles around your eyes. They aren’t the overly critical beings that we are, so chances are till you point them out, they haven’t really noticed them. So quit with the extra make up to cover them.
2. Your conflicting hobbies: They don’t mind if you think that their gaming obsession is silly. They secretly think that your book hoarding habits are equally bad but they are willing to live with it because what’s life without a little dose of silly.
3. That extra flab: We tend to notice even the minutest of changes in our bodies. Honestly that zit on your face or an extra kilo here and there is not even something that they notice.
4. Chipped nail polish: Or not so perfect eyeliner. Or just make up in general. Men generally don’t register these tiny imperfections that are like religion to us.
5. Branded bottoms: Most men can’t tell brands so if you walk out looking like a million bucks in a dress picked from a local shop, chances are he won’t know, or care. As long as you are comfortable in what you are wearing, they don’t really bother about the labels.
6. How soon you jump in bed: While it’s always a good idea to get to know the guy before you jump in between the sheets, there is no set timeline as to when it is okay to have sex. If you respect yourself, you will automatically get it from him too regardless of whether you jump in bed with him before or after a set period of time.
7. Which place you choose for dinner: As long as it serves beer and screens the on-going match, they are quite okay with the places you choose for date time. In fact they are also okay with hanging around the house and ordering in. So on days when you just don’t feel like dressing up, a romantic date at home will not leave him disappointed either.
8. What his friends think of you: Barring a few really close buddies, guys generally won’t care what their guy gang thinks of you. As long as they enjoy your company, they are okay with their pals having their own opinion. So don’t beat yourself up overthinking last weekend’s conversations and what you could have and should have said instead.
9. If you aren’t a neat freak: Monica isn’t really all that fun a person to live with. So if you have clothes lying on the floor when he is coming over, don’t panic. His home is in a worst state.
Source: iDiva
