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6 Ways to master dirty talk in the bedroom so it’s not awkward

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One of the sexiest things a woman can do in bed doesn’t require flexibility, a $100 sex toy or the perfect body. All it takes is your voice, creative mind, confidence and a few helpful tips to become the raunchiest talker your partner has ever had the pleasure of you-know-what-ing.

First, there are two crucial aspects to talking dirty that you should be aware of, assuming you’re a newbie who hasn’t tried it yet: It may just prove to be the one magic button you push that drives your boyfriend or spouse from aroused to ecstaticand — forget him for a sec — given how so many women are verbal by nature, you might just talk yourself into the greatest sexual frenzy you’ve ever experienced.

It’s easy to stand back and say you should just let loose and allow your dirtiest thoughts to leak while you’re doing the deed — and far more difficult to actually execute this fabulous plan if you’re naturally reserved or he’s shy and you aren’t sure how he’ll react.

“For some, talking sexy comes naturally. For others, it is a skill that can be learned,” said Dr. Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist at the Center for Marital and Sexual Health of South Florida. “The first step is to be willing to do something that might at first feel uncomfortable for you. It can even help you stay present in the moment and be more turned on, making it more likely that you will be aroused and even have an orgasm.”

1. Don’t try to be someone you are not

Needle suggests doing your homework even before you hit the sheets by finding hot words that make you feel at ease. “You might want to practice first to see what you are most comfortable saying,” she said. “Start out with expressing how you are feeling: ‘That feels so good.’ If you are comfortable with that, you can add to it with something like ‘your penis feels so good inside me…'”

2. Be honest and natural

It might seem a little obvious that you’re forcing hot talk if you compliment your partner on his “gigantic penis” and tell him you can’t handle his “monster” (though I suppose that could provide a great deal of joy to some men). “Talk about how you are feeling in the moment or after what felt good,” Needle said. She suggests saying something like, “I loved it when you pulled off my pants and started kissing me all over.” In this way, dirty talk can be used to express to your partner what you loved and want to experience again (and again and again).

3. Start your dirty talking ahead of time

You don’t have to wait until you’re in the middle of having sex to say something hot. Send sexy text messages to practice, Needle suggested, which will also allow you to get a feel for what turns your partner on. Stuck for something to say? Needle’s suggestions include: “I am so wet thinking about you right now” and “I can’t wait for you to walk in the door so I can pull your pants down and drop to my knees.”

4. Get the ‘S’ word out of your head

Relationship expert and author April Masini wants women to stop being their own worst enemy when it comes to sex. In other words, ban the word “slut” from your mind’s vocabulary and lose the embarrassment and shame that keep many women from trying new things. “Let go of the fear of sounding silly and try it!” Masini said. “His appreciation will be your cue to continue — or not.”

5. Start with the ‘I’ word

It may be tempting to put all of the emphasis on your partner at first, but Masini says a better approach is to be vocal about your needs and desires. “I want, I like, I love — start your dirty talk with things that have to do with you,” Masini said. “This sends him the cue to do the same, and you’ll learn about him this way, so you can build on his responses.”

6. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself

Sex is supposed to be fun! Needle reminds us to practice and do what feels good. “But remember, that even if it doesn’t come naturally, you may like the sexy or dirty talk once you get started!”

Source: SheKnows

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Video: Zahara Totto beaten by hubby, Big Papa before bitter split

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The sudden breakup between NBS TV’s Zahara Totto and her boyfriend, Don Solomon Ugwu alias Big Papa (Oga) continue to surface with more secrets spilled regarding their one-year old relationship.

Issues seem not light at all as we may have earlier anticipated, for the motor-mouthed media personality after another video storming social media today showing a bitter fight between Zahara and now ex-boyfriend, Don Solomon.

In the video, the mother of four is seen ridiculously nagging and clinging to her boyfriend as she begs him not call it quits in their relationship.

She is later thumped to the ground continuously by Big Papa giving her no chance again in his life.

The fight is most-likely to have been a continuation of the leaked audio where Oga was hectically trying to conclude his affair with the ‘Uncut’ show host.

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Sheilah Gashumba’s relationship with boyfriend, Gods Plan on the rocks

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It seems our favourite young celebrity couple Sheila Gashumba and boyfriend GodsPlan are taking a break. Just days after city socialite Ali Marcus alias Godsplan came out on his Snapchat to reveal his break up with his long time fiancée Sheilah Gashumba, it is now clear that the two have let go of each after deleting their pictures as couple on instagram.

According to information gathered, the two who had many pictures of each other all over instagram surprised their fans when they deleted pictures of them as couple leaving their own singles.

It is said that the two love birds had reached the darkest part of it all after they both started hitting at themselves with allegations of infidelity which forced God’s plan to announce their splitting. “I can confirm me and lil stunner have parted ways,” he said.

Sheilah and God’s plan started dating three years ago and have been able to live in the spotlight as a young celebrity couple. The two have been known for living a lavish lifestyle with trips and vacations. They have been able to do things together regardless of their fights.

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Comedian Chiko officially introduced by his fiancée

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Following what the weekend had in store for Uganda’s stand up comedian Frank Mubiru better known as Chiko of the Madrat and Chiko duo alongside his fiancée Ophra, it’s clear that the two are now one.

On Sunday the 9th of August, Ophra an employee with the Civil Aviation Authority officially introduced Chiko to her family in a ceremony which was attended by his friends and family.

With excitement, Chiko shared a picture of himself kneeling down proposing to Ophra his fiancée accompanied with a caption; “LOVE is a journey starting at FOREVER ending at NEVER ….Finally”

Chiko was smartly dressed in an African Designed trouser and a long sleeved shirt.He also added shades which gave him a cool look. His fiancée Ophra pulled it off with simplicity and beauty.

However, the function was attended by a few people due to the restrictions put by the government following the outbreak of the CoronaVirus.

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Desire Luzinda now taking nursing classes, narrates her academic journey

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Songbird Desire Luzinda has been conservative with disclosing her activities ever since she relocated to the United States of America but here, she bumps with it.

The ‘Ekitone’ singer has shocked her fans and social media followers back here home in Uganda after parading her pictures appearing in a medic dress code, suggesting that she is now pursuing a medical career.

Desire has gone further to reveal that she is now a phlebotomist, ready to attend to patients in blood laboratories especially after her successful phlebotomy exam last week.

She also opened up about her academic journey that at most times failed because of her music career dominancy.

At first, she enrolled at Makerere University pursuing a degree in Development Economics but unfortunately dropped out two years later because of her thrilling music career at that time.

She was also backed-up with hopes of accomplishing the studies someday.

The curvaceous-lady later scooped another chance and got registered at Nkozi University for Development Studies but her love for education was ruined likewise it was at the first time.

This time round, she failed to have her first exam because it collided with her UK music tour dates.

Here, Desire got discouraged more than never before even when I knew the granite importance of Education.

However, her dream of further education was brilliantly forwarded of recent after bearing more commitment and desire enroll again in another preferable field, which she believes is according to God’s wish.

Desire also vows to stick to her goal this time round amidst all hardships she may meet.

Read her statement in full;

This week as I was preparing for my Phlebotomy exam, many thoughts came to my mind.

Many years ago, I enrolled at Makerere University pursuing a degree in Development Economics which I did not complete because my music career had kicked off in high gear. Having dropped off in year 2, at the back of my mind I knew someday I will bounce back and pursue further studies.

Years later, I enrolled at Nkozi university for Development Studies which I barely did for a year because I had a UK tour that my manager ‘then’ committed to and the dates collided with my first Exam period. I began to get tired of trying even when I knew the granite importance of Education.

Fast forward, as I prepared to enroll ‘again’ little did I know God was preparing for me a career totally different. And while many classmates dropped off because of the virtual classes, I said to myself, “not the third time! I have to do this!” So I chose to push even when it was so tough. And here I am on a many years journey of a career very interesting. My point is, never stop trying at something that makes you a better person. People will always talk but would you rather give them talk of you being successful or a failure?! IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FALL BUT THAT ONE TIME YOU RISE UP AND MAKE IT RIGHT. YOUR JOURNEY IN LIFE IS PERSONAL SO CHASE IT PERSONALLY – Desire

Desire moved to the USA in 2018 and since then, she has often been reported pursuing pastorialship until today when she has buried the rumors.

She breads together with her daughter Michelle.

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