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6 Signs you’re his ‘faux-girlfriend’

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I’ve noticed a startling trend in the dating world: Something I’ll call the “faux-girlfriend” phenomenon. That’s when a guy treats you like a girlfriend in a lot of ways—you spend holidays together, you’ve met his parents, you have your own clothes drawer at his place.

In fact, things are so girlfriend-y that it seems the next logical step would be fiancee-y and then wife-y. But something insidious and underhanded is going on.

There are men out there (and women too, I imagine) who treat you like a girlfriend but not really. That’s usually because while he wants the regularity and companionship of a real girlfriend, he doesn’t want the responsibility, the downsides, or the idea of cutting off his options.

How do you know if you might be the faux-girlfriend? Here’s six bigtime clues.

• Facebook status: Yes, no matter that you spend six nights out of seven together, and he calls you crying whenever he needs a pep talk, he still has not changed his status from “single” to “In a relationship.”

I know this sounds cliche, but it’s a big one—if you ask him to do it and he comes up with reasons why he can’t. He might say he’s a “private” person and doesn’t want anyone knowing his personal life.

What he really means is that he doesn’t want the various cute women he’s friended knowing his personal life.

• You don’t know where he lives. While this seems laughable, it’s actually pretty easy to fall into a routine of meeting strictly at one person’s place especially if that person is closer to where the action is.

Maybe he constantly comes up with brilliant excuses as to why you can’t see his place, like his roommate is messy or a psycho. The real reason?

He wants to be able to safely retreat there if you break up and have you not know how to find him!

• He doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend. Whenever you’re out with your man and run into someone he knows, he hems and haws, and finally mumbles, “Oh …. err … and this is Amy.”

Yeah, no “this is my girlfriend, Amy.” Or, “this is my girlfriend.” Sometimes he may even rub salt in the wound by saying, “This is my friend, Amy.”

• His friends don’t have a clue about you. He’s perfectly willing to hang out with your group of friends, but when it comes to meeting his, he always has excuses. Maybe he even goes so far as to say that he prefers just being with you and your friends.

Or maybe you’ve met his guy friends, but somehow the female ones remain ever-elusive. If he’s got friends he sees even if it is just the occasional after-work drink, he’s not bringing you along, there’s a reason.

He’s either embarrassed by you, or doesn’t want to cut off the potential of meeting other women through his friends or turning one of his female friends into something more.

• He never spends money on you. I’m not saying a guy has to pay your rent, buy you Louis Vuitton, and shell out for every single meal and event. But a guy who thinks of you as his girlfriend won’t make you pay for your own slice of pizza.

If you go to a club, he’ll pick up your entrance fee. If you find yourself paying for him, he definitely doesn’t think you’re his girlfriend— more like his free ride.

• He never talks about the future. By the time you’ve been with a guy for a while, sometimes even just a few months, he’ll start mouthing future plans without even quite realising it, saying something like, “Yeah, when we move in together it would be great to get an apartment with a gym,” or even “Our kids are going to be so cute.”

If you never hear anything about you in his future, it’s because he doesn’t see you in it.

Source: Modernghana

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Beenie Gunter Heaped In Child Neglect Accusations

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By BigEyeUg Team; If there is a single scandal that will stout a celebrity’s career, is that of child neglect.

For innumerable years now, most celebrity brands around the world have lost their paths and diminished by the consequences of denying responsibility for their own offspring.

This is a concern on table of multi-talented Ugandan singer Baguma Crescent, aka Beenie Gunter who has been pinned by his former mistress, a one Akankwasa Phiona.

Speaking at NBS TV’s Uncut show, Phiona trolled the ‘Olina Work’ hitmaker for allegedly impregnating her and neglecting his duties as a father to his own child.

The mistress claims to have met Beenie Gunter a few years back at Latino bar in Namugongo where they cracked an intimate relationship as she routinely paid him visits at his residence in Kiwatule by then.

Beenie Gunter

It was at this juncture that Phiona conceived and her pregnancy news were such unpleasant to the ‘Gun Talk City’ CEO as he opted for an abortion.

However, Beenie’s last plan wasn’t successful after Phiona failing to rise the abortion fee.

Months later, Phiona gave birth but her plans to meet her baby daddy were in vain after he had shifted from the former residence in Kiwatule.

Further, her plans to meet Beenie Gunter’s parents instead were also ruined after he turned-down her request to handover the child to them.

Since then, the mistress has lived a miserable life with her baby that involves being evicted from her rental house and starvation.

However, we are yet to have Beenie’s take on the accusations.

Watch video here (Courtesy: Sanyuka TV) ;

We will keep you posted as the scandal unfolds.

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Singer Kemi Sera In Rehab

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By BigEyeUg Team

Former Kream Production singer, Kemi Sera has spent a third day in rehabilitation, a close source confirms.

Kemi Sera who recently featured in a viral social media video while in a sorry mental state, was admitted over the weekend in yet unidentified rehabilitation centre to treatment.

Apparently, she is critically being monitored of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, schizophrenia, bipolar and personality disorders.

This was also confirmed by her newly appointed manager, Ray Supasta as he was delivering her music career funder, Katsha De’bank’s package worth Ugx. 37Million.

Since Kemi Sera is undergoing counselling and being kept away from the community and the media, we have broken the good news to her brother that Katsha De Bank has already sent me (as her new manager) 37 Million Shillings as a starter to manage her career,” stated Ray.

Ray Supasta and Miles Rwamiti handed over Shs.37Million cheque to Kemi Sera’s brother

Zino Million 37 nzilina era z’antuseeko dda okuva ewa Katsha. So as soon as Kemi Sera is done with counselling and she is mentally fit to resume her music career, we shall hit the studio right away tukole omuziki,” he added.

According to Kemi, the dark moments of drug addiction started after facing domestic violence by her lover boss a Hajji.

We wish Kemi Sera a quick recovery!

We will keep you our fans posted.

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Photos: Uganda Cranes Goalie Salim Jamal Ties Nikah With Girlfriend

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By BigEyeUg Team

Uganda Cranes and Al-Hilal goalkeeper has finally officiated his bonking sessions with longtime girlfriend amidst the COVID-19 Pandemic.

The talented shot-stopper has finally tied a knot with the apple of his eye in Muslim marriage known as ‘Nikah’.

The love birds’ plans could not be stopped by the ongoing lockdown as they instead respected the Ministry of Health and Presidential guidance of holding a scientific marriage ceremony.

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Omar Jamal Salim Magoola (born 27 May 1995), commonly known as Jamal Salim, is a Ugandan footballer, who plays for Al-Hilal Club in Sudan.

Salim has played club football in Uganda for Express FC and the Kampala Capital City Authority FC.

He was signed by Express FC after the Inter regions tournament in 2011, which was won by his team Central.

In 2012, he was attending Kampala University as a firstyear student undertaking a degree in human resource management and was one of the nominees for Bell Super League goalkeeper of the year.

He made his international debut for Uganda on 10 July 2012 against South Sudan.

Congratulations Jamal!

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Photos Of Bebe Cool’s Son Alpha With A Girl Set Social Media Ablaze

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By BigEyeUg Team; Prominent singer Bebe Cool’s son Alpha Thiery Ssali is developing too speedy into a handsome man that could in the future path any beauty queen around the arena into love.

Actually, you may now not doubt that Alpha is hunky particularly after recalling that he an offspring of two eye-catching humans; Bebe Cool and Zuena Kirema.

However, the Alpha’s switch level to manhood appears to grow to be a bit skeptical to his dad and mom and own family members as the “Simple eyed” boy can’t withstand the celebration timetable even for a single minute.

In addition, the self-proclaimed ‘Thiery Henry’ has on uncountable occasions no longer resisted sharing pics of his leisure moments without attention of any public perspective.

Latest from the football passionate teenager’s gallery are fishy images with a strange girl who is repoted to be his closest female classmate.

Alpha’s snapshots have on the grounds that cracked deep controversies on social media as the public hangs in suspense for the hidden history between the two opposite sex teenagers within the images.

These drop barely a month after he flashed jovial moments along with his father’s longtime nemesis, Bobi Wine’s son, Kampala Solomon.

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We will keep you posted.

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