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5 things people are afraid to tell you about marriage

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You’re engaged. One-hundred-and-thirty-one likes and 21 Facebook comments later, everyone has built you up to believe that you are about to embark on the most magical, exciting time of your life. How did you get so lucky? Man, people should be really jealous of you.

Cut to three months later.
You’re beginning to realize this process isn’t all its chalked up to be. You start scrolling through your iPhone to find people you can vent to. You are dealing with divorced parents and money issues, and somehow the 131 people on Facebook have all disappeared. No one is answering… which leads me to the first thing people are afraid to tell you about getting married:

1. No one cares about your wedding as much as you do.

I know it’s harsh, but if you can wrap your head around this little factoid from the beginning you will be better prepared for some letdowns to come.

You are the only person who is constantly thinking about your wedding. Everyone else has their own lives to worry about. They have jobs, families, and work as well. So while the wedding is at the forefront of your mind, it’s in the back of theirs.

Expect to be let down, for people to not call you back, or to not show up when they say they will. If you go in with this mindset, the letdowns won’t feel so major. You’ll realize it’s not you, it’s just the nature of the beast. They have lives too. And you can’t fault them for that — which leads me to…

2. Being a bride doesn’t give you the right to be a straight up biatch.

It’s like the world knows you are planning a wedding and really likes to kick you when you’re down. It’s easy to take your aggravation out on other people, but try not to.

It’s not just your day. It’s your fiancé’s day too. And don’t forget your parents, friends, and family who’ve shelled out a lot of cash to be there and make this day possible.

So when you feel like you are about to snap, just picture a film crew around you and smile on the outside and cuss on the inside.

3. When it comes to money, check yourself before you wreck yourself.

First and foremost, before you make any plans, take a long hard look at the kind of person you are financially. Are you the type of person who is okay with spending your savings of the past year on a party? Or are you the type who will look back and wish you had put that money toward a house?

Be honest with yourself. Don’t be influenced by what other people say you should do or be pressured to have a wedding you don’t want to have. Go to the courthouse and take a once-in-a-lifetime trip instead. Be real and upfront with yourself from the beginning. You’ll be left without a major bill, and most importantly, regrets.

This is crucial to your mental and financial well being, even if it is derived from a rap song.

4. Everyone else is eating on your tab, so you probably should, too.

I hate when I hear brides say, ‘Well I didn’t really drink that much or have that much fun. I was too busy saying hello to everyone throughout the night.’

This is the one night of your life where you are given a gift to travel back in time and eat with all of your friends and family. Basically it’s like going back to college, which is the greatest gift one can ever give.

Take advantage of it. Be in the moment. Forget about the part where the cake didn’t turn out right and the napkins were peach and not rose. Have a drink. Let loose and have fun with your new husband. You guys set the tone. If you guys are having a blast, then everyone else is sure to have one as well. And lastly…

5. Don’t lose sight of what the whole shebang is about.

It’s easy to get caught up in the budgets, programs, and seating charts. But don’t forget what it’s all about. You’ve found someone to kick it with for the rest of your life. And that isn’t a simple feat.

Lots of people get caught up in the wedding, which lasts a day, and not the marriage, which lasts a lifetime. Even though every other person on Facebook is posting pictures of weddings and babies, don’t get caught up in the hype. And most importantly, never settle. This isn’t something to enter into lightly.

But if you think you’re ready to take the leap, then do it. Drink, dance your a*s off, and pause for three seconds that night to just take everything in. Time can stop if you let it.

Source: Modernghana

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Beenie Gunter Heaped In Child Neglect Accusations

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By BigEyeUg Team; If there is a single scandal that will stout a celebrity’s career, is that of child neglect.

For innumerable years now, most celebrity brands around the world have lost their paths and diminished by the consequences of denying responsibility for their own offspring.

This is a concern on table of multi-talented Ugandan singer Baguma Crescent, aka Beenie Gunter who has been pinned by his former mistress, a one Akankwasa Phiona.

Speaking at NBS TV’s Uncut show, Phiona trolled the ‘Olina Work’ hitmaker for allegedly impregnating her and neglecting his duties as a father to his own child.

The mistress claims to have met Beenie Gunter a few years back at Latino bar in Namugongo where they cracked an intimate relationship as she routinely paid him visits at his residence in Kiwatule by then.

Beenie Gunter

It was at this juncture that Phiona conceived and her pregnancy news were such unpleasant to the ‘Gun Talk City’ CEO as he opted for an abortion.

However, Beenie’s last plan wasn’t successful after Phiona failing to rise the abortion fee.

Months later, Phiona gave birth but her plans to meet her baby daddy were in vain after he had shifted from the former residence in Kiwatule.

Further, her plans to meet Beenie Gunter’s parents instead were also ruined after he turned-down her request to handover the child to them.

Since then, the mistress has lived a miserable life with her baby that involves being evicted from her rental house and starvation.

However, we are yet to have Beenie’s take on the accusations.

Watch video here (Courtesy: Sanyuka TV) ;

We will keep you posted as the scandal unfolds.

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Singer Kemi Sera In Rehab

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By BigEyeUg Team

Former Kream Production singer, Kemi Sera has spent a third day in rehabilitation, a close source confirms.

Kemi Sera who recently featured in a viral social media video while in a sorry mental state, was admitted over the weekend in yet unidentified rehabilitation centre to treatment.

Apparently, she is critically being monitored of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, schizophrenia, bipolar and personality disorders.

This was also confirmed by her newly appointed manager, Ray Supasta as he was delivering her music career funder, Katsha De’bank’s package worth Ugx. 37Million.

Since Kemi Sera is undergoing counselling and being kept away from the community and the media, we have broken the good news to her brother that Katsha De Bank has already sent me (as her new manager) 37 Million Shillings as a starter to manage her career,” stated Ray.

Ray Supasta and Miles Rwamiti handed over Shs.37Million cheque to Kemi Sera’s brother

Zino Million 37 nzilina era z’antuseeko dda okuva ewa Katsha. So as soon as Kemi Sera is done with counselling and she is mentally fit to resume her music career, we shall hit the studio right away tukole omuziki,” he added.

According to Kemi, the dark moments of drug addiction started after facing domestic violence by her lover boss a Hajji.

We wish Kemi Sera a quick recovery!

We will keep you our fans posted.

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Photos: Uganda Cranes Goalie Salim Jamal Ties Nikah With Girlfriend

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By BigEyeUg Team

Uganda Cranes and Al-Hilal goalkeeper has finally officiated his bonking sessions with longtime girlfriend amidst the COVID-19 Pandemic.

The talented shot-stopper has finally tied a knot with the apple of his eye in Muslim marriage known as ‘Nikah’.

The love birds’ plans could not be stopped by the ongoing lockdown as they instead respected the Ministry of Health and Presidential guidance of holding a scientific marriage ceremony.

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Omar Jamal Salim Magoola (born 27 May 1995), commonly known as Jamal Salim, is a Ugandan footballer, who plays for Al-Hilal Club in Sudan.

Salim has played club football in Uganda for Express FC and the Kampala Capital City Authority FC.

He was signed by Express FC after the Inter regions tournament in 2011, which was won by his team Central.

In 2012, he was attending Kampala University as a firstyear student undertaking a degree in human resource management and was one of the nominees for Bell Super League goalkeeper of the year.

He made his international debut for Uganda on 10 July 2012 against South Sudan.

Congratulations Jamal!

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Photos Of Bebe Cool’s Son Alpha With A Girl Set Social Media Ablaze

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By BigEyeUg Team; Prominent singer Bebe Cool’s son Alpha Thiery Ssali is developing too speedy into a handsome man that could in the future path any beauty queen around the arena into love.

Actually, you may now not doubt that Alpha is hunky particularly after recalling that he an offspring of two eye-catching humans; Bebe Cool and Zuena Kirema.

However, the Alpha’s switch level to manhood appears to grow to be a bit skeptical to his dad and mom and own family members as the “Simple eyed” boy can’t withstand the celebration timetable even for a single minute.

In addition, the self-proclaimed ‘Thiery Henry’ has on uncountable occasions no longer resisted sharing pics of his leisure moments without attention of any public perspective.

Latest from the football passionate teenager’s gallery are fishy images with a strange girl who is repoted to be his closest female classmate.

Alpha’s snapshots have on the grounds that cracked deep controversies on social media as the public hangs in suspense for the hidden history between the two opposite sex teenagers within the images.

These drop barely a month after he flashed jovial moments along with his father’s longtime nemesis, Bobi Wine’s son, Kampala Solomon.

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We will keep you posted.

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