1. She does not come back: Often times, men are so focused on the idea that the more varieties the better and believing that they only wanted one night with her anyway, so they do not notice that the girl does not even make any attempt to fix another date. Even a girl who is not interested in a serious relationship, will often come back for seconds if the s*x is good. When you realize that your partners just keep disappearing after one tryst with you, then maybe you should take a step back. And check yourself.
2. She hurts: The fact that you gave her a back-ache or she can’t walk after spending the night with you is not a reason to pat yourself in the back for a job well done. Great s*x does not hurt after, terrible s*x does.
3. She Has to Get Up Early the Next Day: Sure, it’s possible that she actually does have some place to be early in the morning. But if that’s the case, why did she come back to your apartment at 3 a.m. in the first place? There’s a chance she’s just a busy woman who keeps a tight schedule, but if she doesn’t stick around for seconds, then the meal probably wasn’t very good to begin with.
4.She gives you a lot of instruction: A little guidance here and there is okay, in fact, dirty talk during s*x can make for an exhilarating experience, but when the s*x session becomes a class session, then you are doing something wrong. If all you hear is ‘Oh, baby. Right there. No wait, there. No, over there…’, then you are not blowing her mind.
5. She asks if you’re done: Okay, she probably isn’t going to ask you that, but if it lasted less than ten minutes, you know she’s thinking it. Trust us, there are many dudes out there who a lot of guys reach climax too quickly. Sometimes it happens, and there’s not much you can do about it. If you are one of those, try focus a lot more on foreplay and give her a lot of time to warm up before the act, that way she is almost at her pick before the real action begin.
6: She Fakes It: You know when she’s faking it, you just don’t want to admit it to yourself. Maybe she moans too loud, or not loud enough, and she doesn’t go slightly cross-eyed like she usually does. It’s OK if you don’t get her off every time (as long as you’ve made an effort). But if it becomes a habit, she might upgrade to someone who can.
Source: Modernghana
