Most men would like to know more about pleasing their partners. To do this, the man has to first understand how a woman’s body works when it comes to her sexuality.
The fact that men usually have wrong sexual assumptions about women is often a hindrance on how likely it is to for them to please their partners.
Below are a few places men go wrong when it comes to a woman’s sexuality.
1. Women fall in love after sex
A lot of men automatically and erroneously assume that a woman cannot have sex with a man without ‘catching’ feelings. It is interesting to point out that one of the oldest profession in the world is based on the premise that women can have sex with a lot of men and not ‘fall’ for them. We are talking about prostitution. Yes, women, are more likely than men to ‘bond’ with their sexual partners, but this is not a given. While some women are emotionally connected during sex (eye contact, using loving words etc) others focus on the act itself and not the person. So, as a man, be sure to pay attention to actually pleasing her in the bedroom, and do not just rely on the fact that her love for you automatically implies that she will enjoy sex.
2. Orgasm is the only proof that women enjoyed sex
Sure, a woman’s orgasm is a pretty good sign that you pleased her in the bedroom, but this does not mean she has a bad time if she does not cum. Not all women achieve orgasm during sex, and even those that do, only get there through other means like oral sex, masturbation, as opposed to penetrative sex.
3. Women don’t have fantasies
Men in this part of the world are more focused on their own needs during sex, especially when it comes to sexual fantasies. To make sure she gets the best out the experience, make sure you have a talk with her about what she likes and what she fantasizes about. Imagine how much better sex will be if she knows you will fulfill her fantasies.
4. Rape fantasy is sick
On the issue of fantasies, a lot of men get worried when a woman reveal to them that they fantasize about being raped. The thing is, a high number of women have fantasies involving forced sex, this does not make her sick or mean she wants to be raped. The element of helplessness, total abandon, and the sense of danger can appeal to many women. This does not mean she deserves to be raped or that rape can be fun for any woman. Enjoying that thrill in a safe environment can be a turn-on. Women do not open up about this for fear of being thought as sick, or being taken advantage of. So, be sure to encourage her to be more open and never judge her when she reveals her innermost thoughts and fantasies.
5. Women do not think about sex
It is usually assumed that men think about sex way more often than women. While there can be some truth to this, it does not mean women do not have those times when they get erotic thoughts a number of times a day. A woman’s likelihood of thinking about sex can depend on her time of the month. She is more likely to obsess about sex and sexual acts when she is ovulating as this is her body’s way of attracting males to get her pregnant. She can also have erotic thoughts when she has an object of her fantasy or when she has not had sex in a while. So, if your woman seem to want to talk about sex or share sexual details out of the blue, take advantage of it and encourage her.
Source: Pulse.ng
