If you frequent the bar scene or have tried online dating recently, you’ve probably been barraged by men who think that lewd sexual remarks or lame pick up lines are what it takes to get them a date—or into your pants.
And then, there’s the general insensitivity. Men can be thoughtless when it comes to dating and relationships. It’s not that they intend to be rude… they just don’t think things through. But that doesn’t mean women should necessarily push men away. Women play a part too. Sometimes, women can tend to focus on the negative, making matters worse. However, there are plenty of things men can do to turn women on. He are some tips:
1. Be reliable and follow through.
If you say you are going to call, call. Otherwise, don’t say it. If you make a date for 7:00 get there at 7:00, or be thoughtful and communicate in some form that you’re running late. This is how you convey respect.
2. Show interest by asking questions.
Take the time to inquire about the important aspects of her life—like friends, work, family and hobbies. This is the way you get to find out the things you have in common– and at the same time show her she’s important to get to know about.
3. Compliment her.
Let her know the things you like about her, what turns you on about her– is in fact a huge turn on for her. If you like her hair, outfit or something she says… tell her!
4. Be considerate.
Ask her about the things she likes to do, and factoring in her preferences and needs into the plans you make for your date. If you’re at a restaurant ask her what food she likes before you order to see if you can share anything.
5. Flirt with her!
Be playful, charming, and sexy, smile a lot and laugh with her. All of these things will spark a connection that will be a great turn on.
Source: GalTime
