You can’t control whether a woman finds you attractive, but you can certainly influence how she perceives you. Whether it’s wearing better clothing, gaining self-confidence, or just fixing your posture, focus on how you can use these changes to impress her, but also to look better and feel better about yourself. If you’re single and looking to attract someone special, here are five things that you can start improving on.
1. Be confident
There’s nothing sexier than a man who is confident in himself — and that is not the same thing as being proud, cocky, or self-absorbed. None of that, but a man that knows who he is and is comfortable in his own skin. If you’re having problems with self-confidence, don’t worry because this is something that can be fixed. You might need a wardrobe that gives you a confidence boost, a change of hairstyle, or even learning a new hobby that makes you feel good about yourself.
2. Put an emphasis on grooming and hygiene
Choose a hairstyle that looks good and makes you feel confident. If you need help ask your hairstylist for tips on the latest haircuts and how to maintain it. As for hygiene, develop good grooming habits to keep yourself clean and smelling good. Shave often or learn proper care for your beard. Trim your nose, the back of your neck and any unwanted hair on your back. Wear a cologne that isn’t too strong and spritz only a little bit of it. Your natural scent is sexier than heavy cologne. Take care of your teeth by flossing and brushing regularly to avoid bad breath. Nothing kills a first impression faster than stinky breath.
3. Be comfortable in your own skin
Your personality matters. Being good looking is not enough to keep a woman interested. Make her laugh, be goofy and laugh at her jokes. As far as conversation goes, don’t make it all about you. Listen to her, make eye contact, and don’t interrupt her. Nobody likes a person that interrupts just to start talking about themselves. But on the other hand, you don’t have to agree with everything she says. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin, so that you can speak your mind.
4. Update your style
Improving your style can instantly make you look good and feel better about yourself. Wear clothing that fits you properly and works with your body type. Check blogs, magazines, and social media tools like Instagram for men’s style inspiration. Invest in a nice looking blazer and trousers that you can take to a tailor if fit is a problem. Wear nice shoes, since women pay close attention to what you wear on your feet. Your shoe choice and cleanliness is very telling about your personality.
5. Have goals
There is nothing more attractive than a man that has ambition. We’re not talking about money or being rich. You need to have goals and things that you want to accomplish. Women are more attracted to guys who know what they want and are actively working toward getting it. Indecision is a big turn-off. If you want to change careers every week or still don’t know job is right for you, see a career counselor to get that fixed. Dedicate time everyday toward achieving your goals.
Source: Cheatsheet.com