We like to think of doggy style as the original bad girl sex position. There’s something a little wild, naughty, and titillating about it that just amps up the passion and makes you lust for more. Plus, it feels freaking amazing.
“You can get the deepest penetration possible in this position, and you can also reach the G-spot,” says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of Neurolovology. So if you’re already a fan of this position, get ready to make it even more memorable. Here are 11 super-easy tweaks to raise the stakes:
Get Vertical
The classic doggy style set-up—kneeling on all fours—can feel great for a while, but eventually it may strain your body. “A lot of women complain that they get sore knees, or that it hurts their back or their neck,” says Cadell. Fix that by getting off your knees and on your feet. Stand up and lean forward slightly against a wall, or bend over onto a table or a desk.
Use Pillows
Another surefire fix for rug burn on your knees: Prop yourself up with pillows, giving yourself a cushy foundation to rest on. Or lay completely flat on the bed and place a few pillows underneath your waist. This will create a great angle for him to enter you from behind, says Sadie Allison, Ph.D., author of The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris.
Get Out of the Bedroom
The best part about doggy style is that it doesn’t require a bed—you can have sex all over the house. Try it in the shower, standing on a staircase while holding onto the bannister, or leaning over the kitchen counter. “My favorite is bending over a dryer that’s on the spin cycle, so it’s like a giant vibrator,” says Cadell.
Skip the Strip
For a take-me-right-now kind of romp, pull up your dress or skirt and push aside your underwear, says Cadell. We promise, every time you wear this outfit, you’ll have very fond memories.
Give Yourself a Hand
Using your fingers or a vibrator, stimulate your clitoris as your partner thrusts for a climax that’s twice as powerful. In fact, this is one of the top ways to increase your orgasm chances during doggy style, says Allison.
Bring in the Nipples
If you like breast stimulation, doggy style is the perfect position to incorporate them, says Cadell. Grab your partner’s hands and place them on your breasts. Then, by keeping your hands over his, you can show him exactly how you want him to fondle you. Think of this as naughty show and tell.
Turn Up the Volume
During doggy style, “a lot of women feel more uninhibited because the guy can’t see her face,” explains Cadell. So let it go: Moan, grunt, talk dirty, and do all the things that you may be too shy to do in missionary position.
Get a View
Position yourself in front of a mirror so you and your partner can sneak a peak at each other from another angle, says Allison. And don’t be surprised if it inspires you to put on a show. Toss your hair, arch your back a little more, and catch his eyes for a sultry look.
Go Out of Bounds
If you’re into it, this is the easiest position to switch from vaginal sex to backdoor play, says Cadell. Just make sure to switch the condom to avoid infection, and if it’s your first time, be sure to use plenty of lube and goslow.
Make it Sensual
Who says doggy style has to be rough all the time? Make it a little more romantic by opting for a side-to-side position—like spooning—or getting into position in the bathtub, suggests Cadell.
Take Control
Though it sometimes seems like your partner is calling the shots in this position, there’s plenty you can do to take the reins. Arching your back more or less will let you control the depth (arching less won’t let him go as deep), says Alison. Or you can reach behind and grab his hips to help control the speed of his thrusts.
Source: Women’sHealth