By Ian Ortega
Ever wondered why handsome men like this writer fall in love with simple women, not the so beautiful ones?
Well, research now shows that Intelligent ladies are actually a turn on and intelligence maybe the new beautiful. I find ignorant women a turn off… I find women who think they are intelligent but really are not, a turn off.
When I was single I would jump at the chance of a relationship with someone who might not be the most beautiful, or carrying the best figure…. because if they could make me laugh and hold a great conversation then we would have something in common for life! Mind you… I was lucky and got a woman with beauty and intelligence.
Because many beautiful women are rarely intelligent, handsome successful men end up settling with the average beauty but intelligent ladies. No one is really going to bring a woman that can’t string a sentence together, back to meet ones parents?
To many men, intelligent is sexy, it’s hot. However to some extent, intelligent women could be a turn-off. If ladies are obnoxious with it and belittling, then their intelligence would be a turn-off.
Intelligence as a whole is not a turn-off but arrogance and that attitude where they think they are above you that comes with any success is the turn off! Such ladies who turn off men with their intelligence are actually not described as intelligent but opinionated.
There’s a difference between being intelligent and opinionated, I’d say the reason men don’t want to be with her is because she’s opinionated and arrogant, she’d get on well with Miria Matembe.
Some ladies are actually not intelligent; they just enjoy being controversial and rather domineering.
But for one thing, intelligent women are a turn on and usually get a ring on their finger before their unintelligent friends do so.
Over to you, does a lady’s intelligence turn you on or off?
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