By Ian Ortega
After reading several stupid articles and listening to clueless idiots on the radio and on TV talk about the many reasons why men cheat or why they can’t commit, (btw there’s really only one reason why men cheat or don’t want to commit) I figured I’d share the ONLY reasons why men choose to “commit”. Maybe if people look in reverse they can probably develop some understanding.
Here are the listed categories of men that are likely to be faithful…..
(1) “RELIGIOUS/RICHOUS MEN” They obey God’s rules against adultery and fornication because they are god fearing. Some of these men are permitted by the rules of their religion to have up to 4 women and one of those reasons are for biological needs. Some are not allowed to be in privacy or have social communications with women who they aren’t related to etc. Certain rules vary.
(2) “SEXUALLY INCOMPETENT MEN” Men who have very low sex drives or medical issues are not likely to care about first time sex with new partners because they aren’t driven to. Seeing a nice body part or naked skin wouldn’t trigger them much.
(3) “TIED DOWN MEN” Men who are at risk of losing everything in a divorce will try to keep their life in one piece by reluctantly keeping their piece in their pants just to keep the peace. They’re just trying to be rational now that they realized they made a commitment that can only end according to the rules of family court. These are the “happy wife, happy life” buffoons! They’re walking on eggshells for dear life!
(4) “NERDS/GEEKS” Men who don’t know how to seal the deal with other women feel like they hit the jackpot by having a female companion to call their girlfriend. Even though they are some of the friendliest mates, they are still men and will have the urge for other women. Once the sexual novelty wears off, they continue to enjoy their relationship but have a hard time getting another woman for first time sex, so their sex life is decided by their girlfriend.
(5) “OCCUPIED MEN” These men are obsessed with and partially possessed by their occupation with either gambling, bodybuilding, praying, playing video games, doing drugs, being a dad, or satisfying their greed for wealth. In rare cases a woman will also have a man fully mentally occupied.
(6) “WHITE KNIGHTS” These are men who base their self-worth on other people’s idea of what a good man is and who were told by their mothers and other women that “real men” don’t cheat, or a “real man” only has one woman. They’re wired into doing anything and everything that a “real man” does. So for the sake of being “woman approved” and not being frowned on and told “you’re not a real man”, they do their best to avoid any stigma by doing everything society says a “real man” should do.(this category can sometimes include the men that are easily insulted or shamed by being called “weak” “broke” “gay” and will do anything to show their masculinity. These insecure men are afraid of rejection and disapproval and don’t think for themselves. They believe praising and pandering to women makes them attractive. They eventually get tired of pretending and become undercover lovers only to get caught cheating and then have no legs to stand on since they had no liberty to begin with.
Alright!….. So any man who is being faithful in a relationship fits into one of the 6 categories listed with veeeery few exceptions.
(The exception proves the rule!) Now, just to add some more logic to the equation, women outnumber men about 2 to one. And the millions of women in the porn industry, massage parlours, strip clubs, brothels, and street corners around the world are kept in business by men. And all the men with money and fame are being offered and or paying for sex from and with countless women. Not to mention that it can’t even make mathematical sense that every man was and is only with one woman by the way things are currently structured. Open your eyes!!! Remember the 2 to one ratio??? Do the math! GUYS ARE GETTING LAID! And no amount of chick logic or weird rationale or ultimata or shaming tactics or quotes from the bible will put an end to it. It’s the way it is! But wait, it gets even sillier!…A woman would reveal herself sexually to get the attention of a guy she wants or wants something from, even when sex isn’t what she wants or all she wants from him… But she knows that he wouldn’t mind sex from her even if thats all he wants from her, yet she still can’t quite put her finger on why a man would cheat!
Her own tactic was perhaps “blindly” used due to his biological functions but she can’t figure out the rest!! The fact that men can get a “woman” whenever they want and women can get “sex” whenever they want should be a huge eye opener. And the magazines that fill your head with useless methods on “how to get him to commit” is another one! How many infidelity cases do you have to hear about every day over your lifetime to realize maybe the average guy needs sex from more than just one woman?! I mean even my religious dad had to get married to another woman. I didn’t understand when I was 19 but I do now. So guys, I’ve opened the closet. You can stop lying about who you are. Maybe if you’re true to yourself you will find a woman who respects and understands you for who you are, instead of one who loves you for who she thinks you are.