Men have been accused of rolling over and snoring two minutes after a steamy session and girls have voiced their concerns and displeasure about it. While being good in the sack will earn you marks, what you do right after can bring down your score to zero. Theres no use of making a girl squeal with pleasure then make her feel like rubbish thereafter. Most chics would rather feel appreciated after an average lay than trashed after an awesome one. Here are a few things you can do that will definitely make her comfortable.
Observe The Three Minute Rule
I know things might have been somewhat heated and you just want to roll over and catch a power nap. Fight that temptation spare three minutes, say something cuddle , hold her or kiss her cheeks , forehead do something but dont roll over.
Ask men demystified why there is a strong urge to fall asleep right after and how you can avoid it.They say there’s a biological reason behind why you feel compelled to take a nap after making love. Upon orgasm, humans release the hormone oxytocin, which normally makes us sleepy. But behold, there is a way around this: Because we tend to hold our breath when an approaching orgasm starts creeping in, we feel exhausted when it finally kicks down the front door.
So instead of holding your breath, try making a conscious effort to inhale and exhale deeply. This will not only enhance your orgasm, it will also help you stay awake, at least for a little while.
If you forget to breathe (hey, I don’t blame you), then after a few minutes of rest, get up and take a cool shower or sit up rather than remain lying down.
Reassurance
I once read a tweet saying ” All your hotness amounts to nothing once am inside”. Simply put that tweep values the chic less after he gets it. For this reason , girls need reassurance otherwise you will leave her feeling like a dustbin. This is important because of what is commonly termed as ‘hit and run”.
Make sure that she feels like she means the world to you, whisper nice things to her, compliment her dont just stare at her. Sometimes men are guilty of disbelief, they cant come to terms that it just happened. That makes her feel like thats the only thing you were after and you might not even get some again, leave alone round two.
You needn’t make a grandiose gesture after the deed all the time, but because some women are extremely vulnerable after making love, letting her know that you still adore her as much as you did before you got inside is important. Even if you’re lying there watching TV or talking about how the cracks in the ceiling look like they’re getting bigger, always keep touching her. Place your hand on her thigh and rub it gently or play with her hair. You don’t have to be sexual; affection and attention will not go unnoticed by her.
Make a snack together
Incase you didnt know, there is something cool about a man who cooks and its even sexier when they see you chopping onions and tomatoes and stirring things up.
I doubt there’s a man in this world who isn’t starving after sex, but rather than turn over on your side for a nap before blurting, “ebu go make me toast mayai,” suggest that the two of you make breakfast together.
You can chop the onions and tomatoes while she beats eggs. Being in the kitchen together might earn you marks but if you let her sleep then sneak out of bed, whip up some breakfast and deliver it in bed and let the aroma wake her up, you are destined for greatness. If she was meant to leave in an hour to spend Saturday with her girls, she might just ditch them for you.
Say Thank You
It takes alot for a woman to get into the sack with a man, save for when they are drunk or when you are paying. Lets get this straight, men never trick women into bed, in most cases, its always premeditated, if she shows up at your house to watch a movie and you end up in bed, chances are she wanted some.
You might argue that you did most of the work or she wanted it anyway, but if you want to keep getting some, thank you goes a long way. And i dont mean, you blurting a ‘thank you’ in the midst of catching a breath, find ways of showing appreciation. “You could say that was good, where did you learn that?”
While climax is awesome you have to keep in mind that someone was there with you while you were reaching that point, and whether or not you’re ecstatic about their presence post-sex, they’re still there (at least this time). So take the time to acknowledge her existence and treat her with appreciation.
Until next time, climax to the max and make sure you let her know that you’re thankful for it
Nap Time, Together
If she is one of those who wont let you stay on top the whole time, or she experiences those hair pulling aggressive orgasms chances are she might be just as exhausted as you are once the deed is done.
So say something like, “Hey why don’t we take a power nap together, then take a bath, make dinner, and do this all over again?” And while at it keep your arms around her to let her know that she’s the powerful force that put you into a sleepy stupor. It is an abomination to say things like “ga ga ga ga ” while that facing the opposite side or the wall.
Start Allover Again
If you execute at least two of the above well, chances are she will be up for round two three and four. Wake her up with a kiss on the neck and move on to the rest of the body. You have to build up her excitement for a repeat performance until she is all revved up.
Source: Vibe Weekly