“If a wife doesn’t know what it takes to satisfy her husband, it is essential that she finds out”- Gary Rosberg.
In this piece I will open your eyes to what men generally desire their wives do to them in the bedroom. I will then narrow it down to specific needs of your own husband. You need to know all these, so you can give him the best and satisfy all his bedroom desires.
Men want:
1. Excitement: They want their wives to be excited about sex. No husband will like to beg, cajole or force his wife to bed. Moreover, men want wives who show enthusiasm about sex, love sex and make sex a thrilling experience for both of them.
Men hate women who do not smile or are not happy during love making.
2. Involvement: Men appreciate women who are involved in the sexual activities. They want a woman who is involved during foreplay, intercourse and the afterglow, not the kind of woman who will sleep like a log as her husband makes love to her.
3. Aggressiveness: Wives who are aggressive in bed make their husbands desire more of them. They want wives that will take them to the “next cloud”, as they make love, bringing out new tricks from her ‘trick book’, giving the best in the best way.
4. Variety: Variety is the spice of life. Men want wives who give room for variety, not old time wives of the Victorian era that only want men on top. (Missionary style).
They appreciate women who allow sex to take place in another venue apart from their bedroom, though in privacy.
5. Total surrender: Women should willingly surrender themselves to their husbands, no need for a cat and mouse battle, no Third World War before the lady will allow herself to be taken. By willingly surrendering yourself to your man, doing whatever he says, rolling willingly, opening your laps and tightly holding your man without being told, you will be doing your marriage a lot of good.
6. Neat bed: A neat bed-sheet, well dressed bed, perfumed mattress will make a lover out of a man any day. Do not joke with this, take good care of your bedroom most especially the bed.
7. Strip naked: The wife that willingly strips herself naked will make her husband happy not the type that still hides her nakedness from her husband.
8. Surprise package: No man can withstand a surprise package. That particular thing you think will shock him, go ahead and do it. Do not waste time, do it quickly, you will touch his heart if you do.
9. Seductive wives: Men appreciate wives who seduce them to bed and willingly turn them on. Although, no man will want his wife to do it to another man.
10. Communication expert: Men also prefer a woman who communicates her needs in the bedroom with them willingly and are ready to discuss their sex life.
11. Manhood woman: Men want women who boost their ego, celebrate their manhood, appreciate their genitals, and tell them how strong they are in bed.
12. Invitation: Men want wives who willingly invite them to have sex. You can do this by simply telling him, “Darling, come let me give you a treat of our honey moon time”, “big boss come and have a taste of your apple”. You could simply start the foreplay without saying anything. You can also do this by touching his genital, buttocks. Send text messages to him in the office. Your message could read, “Honey, I crave your body. Come home quickly, your lover girl is waiting for you, fresh and hot”.
13. Feedback: A man wants his wife to give him a feedback of what she is doing verbally. They expect their wives to talk and appreciate them as they make love.
14. More frequent sex: One thing any man will want more from his wife is sex. Your man will be very glad if you will agree to more frequent sex. Remember an average man wants sex two or three times a week.
15. Good sense of dressing: They also want their wives to dress well, look nice and acceptable. Have good night wears, romantic and sexy ones for your husband’s eyes only.
16. Faithful wife: Though men want their wives to love sex and desire it, no man wants his wife to love sex to the extent that she will look for it outside. Your husband wants you to be faithful to him. He wants you to be a creative sex partner just for him.
Source: Total Family Life