Age difference matters in any relationship or marriage, but if two people can treat each other with respect and love, it wouldn’t be such a big deal. However, while dating an older guy, you need to watch him closely, observe his behavior and learn his opinion about many things.
For example, you are a twenty four year old lady and you are going out with a thirty nine year old guy, that difference in is huge. At first, you may feel you can handle it, you love him and he loves and that’s all that matters. Don’t be so sure about that, an older guy may have control issues, that’s if he sees you relationship or marriage as super-ordinate/subordinate terms.
He would always see you as a child, he may discard your opinion or advise concerning certain issues because he feels you lack experience and you are not mature enough to advise him. If you notice any trait like this in the guy you’re dating, I’ll advise you to walk away, don’t get married to him.
In a relationship, walking away would hurt but it’s easier than walking out of a marriage. If he doesn’t consider you mature, what makes you think that would change once you are married? Don’t be surprised if he takes decisions or initiates projects without consulting you, once you are married.
Some older guys tend to be bossy and very domineering, they could become abusive if care isn’t taken. Considering their age difference which gets more obvious as they age, they may start to feel insecure, remember you are still a young and beautiful woman. They may begin to suspect your every move, who you are talking to? Who you are calling? And God help you, you have male servants, he’s always going to be suspicious. Well, I don’t blame them. If I married a man twenty years my junior, I’ll be worried about so many things. I would be worried about my performance in the bedroom and my fading good looks.
Source: Davinadiaries.com
