If you want to start talking dirty with your girlfriend, start off easy, and work your way up. It’ll get sexier and both of you will feel hornier as the years go by. But don’t get carried away too fast or say something that’ll just leave one of you feeling awkward or worried.
Here are 6 great dirty talking tips you can use while talking dirty with a girl. Try them, and you’ll see just how well they can work!
#1 Call her names. For starters, dirty names are the perfect way to take a walk down the road of dirty talk. As you penetrate her, grab her and claw her, and say something dirty and sexy about each body part of hers that you touch with your hands. Or just call her a dirty slut and work with that as the minutes pass by.
#2 Describe it. This is another safe way to see if both of you enjoy dirty talking together. Tell her everything you’re going to do to her, about five to ten seconds before you actually do it. If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it.
#3 Ask her to open up. Ask your girlfriend or wife what she wants to talk about. She may feel awkward to say something during foreplay though. So wait until you penetrate her so she can feel completely uninhibited and bold, and then ask her to say something dirty and sexy. Or ask her to imagine something naughty and tell you where she’d want to be. And once she says something that arouses her, take the cue and get into the dirty descriptions.
#4 Forced sex. Many girls enjoy this! Start off by having regular sex, and somewhere along the way, grab her hands firmly with one hand and hold them behind her head or on top of her head. Get vigorous, and penetrate her harder. And as you do that, run your free hand all over her body in a not-so-gentle way.
If she enjoys what you’re doing, she may play along with you. And from there, the sky is the limit. You can slap her, bite her or just say the dirtiest things you could do to a girl you’re trying to take advantage of in bed.
#5 Instruct her. Tell her what you want her to do. You could use this during foreplay, or while having sex with each other. To make it just a little kinkier and sexier, mix in a few questions too. “Would you skinny dip with me if we were on a vacation and the beach was empty?” “When we’re in a club, I want you to grind against me with your butt, and I want you to reach your hands into my jeans…” You get the drift?
#6 Taboo fantasies. Dirty talk about things that are beyond the bed. Talk about different places, involving other people, or just doing things that are considered rather risqué like flashing in public or making out in front of someone else.
Try these 6 dirty talking ideas for starters. And as long as you take your time to warm her up, both of you will start to enjoy sex a lot more, and feel like naughty little teenagers all over again!
But always remember that what you say in bed should stay in bed. Communicate with each other and let her know that the things you say are just dirty thoughts in bed and you’d never act on any of those thoughts ever.
After all, most sexually taboo acts always excites us, but these fantasies are almost always best experienced in the mind when both of you are in bed!
Source: Lovepanky.com
