Media consultant Joel Isabirye has shared his thoughts on Johnnie’s murder at Club Guvnor. Here’s what he said:
“I had no idea Ivan kamyuka is my ob. But when the story first emerged I reflected on three aspects of it. First that Guvnor is probably one of the safest night clubs in East Africa. I have never heard of an incident at the club that led to a death unless I have just forgotten. The internal management of security is close knit meaning the bouncers watch over at least every 15 metres of space therefore for this to have happened the argument and subsequent brawl must have been snappy.
The second issue is that rarely do new men attack ex’s. So I suspected the deceased attacked first. I hear it has been proven. It is said that the couple were attacked without provocation but provocation sometimes is not on the scene of the clash. It could have been over facebook, whatsapp, phone, sms, etc.
Third the deceased should not have attacked the couple and with an object for that matter. If Kamyuka had died and Johnnie stayed he would be in the same circumstances. Kamyuka should not have attacked back. He should have called security. Fighting and fighting with objects is really an outdated form of resolving disputes and the consequences are dire as we are seeing. In principle if you find someone you have a deep dispute with like the kind of Kamyuka and Johnnie in a place relocate to another place.
Lastly unless you are the parent of someone you can never claim ownership of someone even when you are legally married to that person or have children with them especially in this generation of instability in social structure (families etc) where people change like the weather or leave relationships or marriages over both petty and big things regardless of lifelong commitments made before families, religious people and others. For those who fight (especially physically) for that man or woman, the person you should deal with if you want to resolve your issues with your partner is your partner.”
BigEyeUg Staff