Most women think men are hard to satisfy when it comes to sex. In fact, there is the saying that men are polygamous in nature and would always cheat no matter what a woman does.
Well, this could be true to some certain extent but we also know that there are tricks you could employ as a woman to keep your man coming and minimize the chances of his cheating on you.
Learning how to satisfy your man sexually is a lot easier than you think and you don’t need to be a porn star or a some sort of sex crazed nymphomaniac to make sure that you give him a good time.
Just try out these tips and you will have him become hooked for life.
1. Find out his kinks, fantasies and fetishes
Every man has certain things that are massive turn ons for them. It could be the way you dress when you go to bed or even your smell. It could be the sight of you being naked or wearing that skimpy night gown around the house.
If you are serious about satisfying your man sexually in the bedroom, then the most powerful thing that you can do is find out what his kinks, fantasies and fetishes are and then do them with him.
Doing them with your man is actually the easy part. Finding them out and getting your man to open up is the hard part. Often your man may be slightly embarrassed or reluctant to talk about them with you. To get him to relax and open up to you is not that easy unfortunately.
One way to approach it is to tell him some of yours first. Being the first to share is a great way to get him to reciprocate. Another way is to just say that you want to try lots of different things with him. As you explain to your man each thing that you want to try with him, try to judge his reaction. Obviously he is going to look more keen and excited about certain ideas than others.
2. Learn how to talk dirty
Yes, we all know that men are turned on mostly by what they see. But what you may not know is that if you want to vastly increase his sexual satisfaction when you are in bed together, then you need to learn how to talk dirty to him.
Talking dirty to your man takes a little practice and work. But once you master it, you’ll have another skill in your sex tool set that most other women don’t possess. The first stage to talking dirty to your man doesn’t actually involve words. It simply involves you getting louder and louder during sex. You need to accentuate your moans and groans. This is quite easy.
All you are going to be moaning is, “Mmmmmm” or “Ooooooo” or “Ahhhhh.” Easy, right? The next stage to talking dirty is just using 1 or 2 words. Try slowly saying, “Yes” or “That’s it” or “Yes, Yes” or “Keep Going.” When you are saying these one or two word phrases, try drawing them out and moaning as you say them.
Many women don’t ever even get to the second stage. So if you do, you are already ahead of them! Getting dirtier is actually pretty easy if you’ve mastered the first 2 stages. You just need to start telling your man what you enjoy about him and what he is doing, “I love how big you feel” or “Keep hitting that spot” or “Keep going, harder” or “You feel so good inside me.”
But dirty talk during sex is only a start! Don’t forget that you can talk dirty to him during the day as well as through text if you want to turn him on and keep him satisfied.
3. Learn some awesome sex positions
One of the things that keeps men coming for you is the use of variation when it comes to sex and if you want to keep your man sexually satisfied in the bedroom, learn some awesome and kinky sex positions and try them out with him.
Everybody have certain things that turn them on way more than anything else. But if you focus solely on the same few things and use them over and over, you will inevitably end up getting bored of them.
So when having sex, try as much as possible to switch up things and have a mix instead of just being in the same position all the time. Inter space them and watch how you bring out the best in your man. Slowly but steadily build up a large database of killer sex moves that are highly pleasurable to your man and you will never catch him staring at another woman.
4. Learn how to give awesome oral sex
A lot of women take this for granted but there is no man who does not want to be given a blow job. So if you are serious about learning how to satisfy your man sexually, then learning how to give fantastic, pleasurable blow jobs should be near the top of your list of priorities.
Source: Pulse.ng
