Let’s be honest. We are awesome and that takes work. Which means that there might be certain things about us (like living in a bit of denial) that could at times get a little annoying for the people we live with, in particular the husband/ boyfriend. And while he does tend to put up with most of it, there are some things that you’d much rather not do.
1. Treating him like a kid: Honestly even we sometimes find this annoying. The cuddles and hugs are all cool, but don’t try to be his mom.
2. Making him work on the weekend: Major relationship killer. All that he wants to do on weekends is lie in bed and ignore the world. Let him, at least on Sundays.
3. Asking him too many questions: Don’t make the relationship akin to living with the CIA. It’s your home, not relationship headquarters.
4. Getting too critical: Positive criticism is good but not all the time. So while we understand that you’d want to immediately criticise him about throwing the towel on the floor, refrain!
5. Calling up your mom for everything: Nothing can be as annoying as living with a partner who can’t make her own decisions.
6. Wanting to change him: Put yourself in his shoes; would you want a boyfriend who is constantly trying to change you? We know they all need a push in the right direction but don’t try to alter his personality.
7. ODing on the drama: It can be emotionally exhausting to be in love with someone who loves drama. And while some of it is cute, please don’t go overboard. Everything really isn’t the end of the world.
8. Being overly attached: Don’t take the ‘two bodies, one soul’ thing all too seriously. Being your own person and giving each other space will have positive results in the long run.
9. Being whiney: We all need to rant once in a while, but too much whining just makes you seem negative.
10. Nagging too much: We’ve kept the worst for the last! It might seem like it, but it isn’t absolutely necessarily to nag him 24 * 7; you and he, both need a break.
Source: iDiva
