It can be a very complicated situation for a person who wants to have sex with a first timer. You need to be careful so your partner enjoys the sex, but you also have to keep your own pleasure in mind.
For a sex newbie, the first time experience is one they are unlikely to forget so it needs to be memorable, in a good way. These tips below will help you make sure you give your rookie partner the best sex’perience ever.
Take it slow:
You are not only a sex partner in this situation, you are a teacher. If you want your partner to get the optimum pleasure from sex, then you absolutely need to take things slow and give them time to catch up. You should tease, touch and caress them slowly so they get used to the sensation and feel themselves being swept away.
Do something new:
Just because you are sexually experienced does not mean you should stick to old tricks in bed. Try something you have never done before, perhaps a new position. You partner will feel so much more comfortable knowing they are not the only one experimenting.
Let them lead:
A first timer might feel nervous and shy but for them to have a good time, they have to feel relaxed and confident. So, to make them feel more in control, give them a chance to take the lead. Let them have the chance to follow their instincts so they can please you also.
Watch porn:
If you were trying something new, won’t you feel so much more prepared and confident if you have watched it happen beforehand? Watch an adult video with your partner so they can see how things go. You can also use this opportunity to show them what you like so they know what route to go.
Use your words:
A newbie might not be properly versed when it comes to sexual cues such as moans and body languages that say you are enjoying what they are doing. So, make sure you actually use your words when letting them know what feels good.
Encourage them:
A sexual newbie needs encouragement and a lot of it. They need to know they are doing something right so do not forget to complement them and show your approval.
Source: Pulse.ng