By CNY MC
So you’re in love with this gorgeous girl you want by your side every day, but she still thinks of you as more of a sister than anything else. Here at BigEye.Ug we understand it’s disreputably hard to get out of the “friend zone”, but if you really want to escape, feel free to read this..
Make her feel jealous
Girls love to be chased around even if they are in a relationship; they feel good as guys are hitting on them, and they find it fun. Play it the logical way. Find other girls and learn how to flirt well. Ironically, the more women you meet, the better you will do with the girl you’re trying to escape the friend zone with. The more jealous she gets, the closer she tries to pull you back because she practically misses the sweet words and care you had for her when you were trying your luck out.
Accept the reality of the situation.
No begging or pleading for her to give you a chance. She made a conscious decision to not be anything more than friends with you, and no amount of convincing will change her mind. Instead, we’re going to approach the situation by working on her irrational and illogical side. Don’t withdraw yourself, but you’ll do much better if you start putting less focus on her and more focus on you at this stage of the process.
Break the touch barrier.
To girls, the difference between friendship and relationship is the where they are touched. When you are friendzoned, and you have always wanted to break the zone boundaries, take a few little “touch risks”. Caress her hands, hair, shoulders or back just softly and don’t make it last long. Girls are so sensitive with touches. Don’t ask for permission to touch, most definitely she will say Hell No!! Just go ahead and touch her, it shows that you’re reasonably confident. This will make her feel more attracted to you.
Be a good opportunist
Take advantage of any loopholes in her relationship. Whenever she gets a misunderstanding with her boyfriend, be there for her, comfort her; make her forget the guy even if it was for just 30 minutes. Make her feel you can be more than a friend, don’t speak ill of her boyfriend, advise her accordingly. Even when she is away an abrupt call will do.
Flirt with her.
The number one reason guys can’t get out of the friend zone is because they don’t realize that it’s a matter of sexual attraction; or rather, the lack of it. So start mocking her playfully. Start with playful compliments until you can eventually move on to flirting that’s more sexual in nature. If I notice that she put on some sexy short dress, my favorite line is, “You cannot wear that dress around me anymore, because I’m afraid that one of these days I won’t be able to hold control myself and do something BAD.”
By the time you do all this, you will have done well. Your flirting becomes more sexual by nature, she starts being touchier with you, and your dates become more solemn.
To accomplish your mission of getting out of the friend zone, you MUST make your move and she will be giving you hints that it’s okay to do something now. When opportunity knocks, open the door and pounce on it. It took me many years and even more heartbreaks to finally figure it out, but this very process has worked astoundingly for me every single time I have applied it.
