Even after you’ve gone on a few dates with someone, it can be tough to tell whether a guy you’re seeing is genuinely interested. We asked relationship expert, matchmaker and love architect Kailen Rosenbergfor her tips on figuring out if he’s truly into you.
He shows genuine interest
If you’re dating a guy that only talks about himself and never seems to ask you any questions, he might not be as into you as you hope. “It’s a good sign if he asks about you, your day and the things that interest you and are of importance to you,” says Rosenberg.
He calls more than texts
Texting is probably the most common form of communication, so of course, any guy you meet will be texting at some point, but he shouldn’t be doing it all the time. “Even if he still texts, it will be to show you that he’s thinking of you,” says Rosenberg. “He’ll call to hear your voice and to ask you out for that next date.”
He doesn’t rush sex
There’s no denying sex is fun and a great part of any relationship, but if all he cares about is sex, he might not be relationship material. What you want to see is someone who’s willing to wait, says Rosenberg. “Although he could be dying to get you under the sheets, he’s more interested in taking it slow.”
He doesn’t wait more than a day to call
When it comes to dating, there might be countless rules about when you’re supposed to call, but all that just complicates things, says Rosenberg. “When a man is interested, you know. He doesn’t wait around to call and he doesn’t play games,” she explains. “Bottom line, he can’t wait to hear your voice.”
He makes plans for the future
You can definitely tell if a guy is truly into you when he starts making plans that go beyond, “Hey, want to come over tonight?” “I’m not talking marriage but I am talking weeks out for upcoming concerts, plays, art openings, anything,” says Rosenberg. “He’s already thinking into the future.”
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