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How to Break Up with your Patner Peacefully

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When people start dating, there can be all kinds of fireworks and “butterflies in the stomach.” Some time later, those feelings may have faded, replaced by the feeling that the two shouldn’t be together anymore. So how can people break up without making them miserable, causing a scene, or worse?

Treat Partners With Respect

Treating others as you would treat yourself applies to breakups as well. There’s no reason to text message a breakup. You make think it will help avoid an argument or tears, but it’s cold and disrespectful. The same goes for changing relationship status on social media, or telling all your friends and family you’re broken up before speaking with them first. Think of how you want someone to break up with you, and try doing the same.

The exception to this is if you don’t feel safe — in that case, breaking up over the phone or by email may be safer. If you don’t feel as though your safety is in jeopardy, it’s best to be honest and break up face-to-face. However, it might help to break up in a public place, or have friends or family waiting nearby once it’s over.

Stick to Your Guns

Breakups are very tough, but that’s no reason to back down and reverse your position. If you don’t feel the relationship is right, then it’s time to end it. This isn’t a negotiation, it’s a break up. You can listen to what they have to say, but don’t feel as though you need to keep explaining yourself for wanting to end the relationship.

Unhealthy or abusive partners may manipulate you during a breakup to stay. They’ve become a huge part of your life, and you might be afraid of feeling lonely. You might even think you’ll miss them a lot, or feel helpless without them. Again, stick to why you want to leave. Even if they try to make you stay through guilt trips, insults, or threats, remember that you are okay with this decision because you are choosing to make it.

Feel Good About Your Choice

Your partner’s feelings will undoubtedly be hurt, and that’s something you need to accept. In the long run, there is probably a very real reason why you are breaking up with them. And if the relationship was unhealthy or abusive, it’s even more important to remind yourself that you did this because you don’t want to be in a relationship like that.

Tell family and friends once it’s over. Let your support system know so they can help you as you deal with the breakup yourself. Need help with how to break up? Chat with a peer advocate — and remember, everyone deserves a healthy relationship, including you!

Source:breakthecycle.org

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Video: Brown Shuga in tears after being dumped

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By BigEyeUg Team

Truth be told, true love will feel better than anything else in this world and that is why most people fight to keep it once they find it.

However, singer Brown Shuga’s love story is anything but enjoyable at the moment after silently suffering from depression and frustration for quite some time because of love.

Brown Shugar

On Thursday evening, Brown Shuga could not hide the pain for any longer as she broke down into tears in a viral video that is making rounds on social media, revealing the rationale behind her currently devastating life.

The ‘Sivaawo’ singer claims to be living in denial by hubby, tycoon Charles Olim aka Sipapa.

Brown Shuga reveals that all she adored from Sipapa at the initial stage of her relationship with was love but she was disappointed to the maximum despite her mere request to the tycoon.

She also says her life has been doomed by ever since Sipapa dumped her for another woman, with whom they have even had a child together.

Sipapa and Brown Shugar

Shuga further reveals how her hard work and sweat towards Sipapa career has hit rock bottom after being abandoned to point of lacking even where to sleep.

The singer is also recalled appearing in nasty pictures with injuries she claimed to have sustained from boyfriend, Sipapa’s daily beatings.

The two love birds are believed to have started dating in 2016 but hardly have a child together.

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Video: Weasel and baby mama Talia Kassim relationship hits the rocks

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Goodlyfe Magic singer Douglas Sseguya Mayanja, famously known by stage names, Weasel Manizo has been reported domestically violent again at his Neverlands Ranch in Kizungu-Makindye, Kampala.

According to a video that making rounds on social media, Weasel Manizo is said to have assaulted his baby mama, Talia Kassim, sent her packing her belongings and kicked her out of his house.

Close sources reveal that the two had a nasty fight today morning, leaving their four-year relationship torn apart.

Weasel, Talia and Pallaso in their hail days

This is not the first time Talia is being harassed by the ‘Bwobayo’ singer as it is recalled last year her silent miserable relationship was exposed by Weasel’s elder brother, Jose Chameleone’s wife one Atim Daniela.

Daniela boldly heaped advise to Talia to quit an abusive relationship she had with hubby Weasel as soon as possible which we highly anticipate she didn’t until today when its surfaces negative.

Weasel and Talia met in 2016 and have two kids together, Thea Mayanja and Emmanuel Mayanja.

However, Weasel’s morals towards Talia could not be a surprise especially after bearing in mind that his other girlfriend Sandra Teta is a fresh mother with newly bouncing baby boy.

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We will keep you posted as details in this story unfold.

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Bae @31: Bad Black bosses with a seductive photo album at her 31st birthday

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Whenever the annual calendar clocks to the 5th day of July, social media is buzzed with birthday wishes to Kampala City socialite, Shanitah Namuyimbwa alias, Bad Black.

Bad Black is fond of taking up the day in the news without anybody’s favour but instead on merit of possessing one of one of the highest numbers of following.

Today, Shanitah marks her 31st Anniversary in life and she has got to pomp it in style with a huge volume of photos where she appears at-ease with friends.

The photo album also features her cozy and imminent moments with boyfriend Sky West.

Bad Black and boyfriend, Sky West kiss

She has even run out of words to explain God’s blessings’ abundance to her and territory at an age of 31 because she looks better despite blooming a late age.

Lord am so grateful. 31yrs today it looks good on me. If you indeed bless me & in large my territory,” she wrote.

The mother to three is also astonished by her aging like fine wine and compares herself to an Egyptian goddess.

See how at 31yrs Aging like fine wine no competition but accept am Egyptian goddess,” Black adds.

Unlike her past birthdays where she has hyped the parties with glamorous designs and valuable gifts brought by friends and family, Bad Black is expected to celebrate this in a scientific way, owing to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Here is Bad Black’s full photo album;

Happy Birthday Bad Black!

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Guitarist Charmant Mushaga quietly suffering from depression after breakup with wife Sandra

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It’s such a devastating moment for Prominent Congolese guitarist, Charmant Mushaga Buhendwa as he continues to trail his life through a heartbreak after his wife, Sandra Klonka dumping him.

This website has come to learn about the Uganda-based Zaire born musician’s marriage status after he went public to disclose how his relationship with the Hungarian woman doomed just within one year after their wedding.

The Afrigo Band instrumentalist’s revelation comes in after accumulating uncountable messages in his inbox, congratulating him upon his initial wedding anniversary, which in reality he didn’t achieve.

Today I decide to make it clear to all that knew and saw some changes that happened in my life on the 19th of June 2019.

This whole week I’ve been receiving messages in my inbox congratulating me for my first Wedding Anniversary,” he wrote.

In deep sorrow, he says that the matrimonial vows he made with Sandra on 19th June 2019, failed just after 4 Months from the wedding.”

Well on a sad note I regret to say that our marriage failed 4months after our wedding. It’s a long story but it is well,” he added.

Charmant also shared his love woe with Sandra on his WhatsApp status.

You were once my happiness and today you are my greatest sorrow, I wish I never met you, my heart would be at peace …….goodbye Sandra.

Charmant and Sandra got married in a civil suit at the Uganda Registration Services Bureau and had only one child together.

Keep strong Charmant!

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