Here is a foolproof, step-by-step method to play hard to get, so that your guy gets drawn into the game and you both end up winning!
- Stop being attentive, doting and gooey-eyed – I don’t mean that you have to go cold mind you, certainly don’t start to ignore the poor guy or give him dirty looks, he will wonder what he done to upset you! What I mean is to focus you attention on yourself. Put yourself at the centre of the universe instead of him. He may not notice at first because he may not be used to paying much attention to you, but you will notice the difference in yourself. You will gain a better perspective, which is an essential foundation to getting what you want.
- Become more and more unavailable – If before, you would drop everything just to be around him, or have a texting conversation for ages just because it’s convenient for him; despite the fact that you’re in the middle of shampooing the dog or doing your weekly supermarket shop – it is time to start cutting things short. Again, you don’t have to be rude or abrupt, but simply illustrate that you have a life of your own. Don’t stay on the phone long, tell him you’ve got to go out. Say you will call him back because you’re busy at the moment. If he wants to hang out because he’s bored tell him you can’t and that you’ll let him know when you are free. He will begin to notice that suddenly you have a lot going on and this is the point when HE will realize that he is not the centre of your universe!
- Be Mysterious – The more obscure you can be about how you spend your own time, the more curious he will be about you, because suddenly you will be a mystery! Unpredictability is exciting, and mysteries exist to be solved. If he is curious about you, then he will begin to go out of his way to find out more about you, which will mean, out of his own free will, he is paying you attention – finally!
- Show that other men find you attractive – A sure way to put any guy who is interested in you on their toes is to present them with the competition. You won’t even have to tell him that you are interested in any other men, he will smell them sniffing around you a mile off – even if in reality they aren’t! All you have to do is drop a name here and there. If he hears the same name more than once he will start to wonder who this guy he’s never met is, and who he is to you! It will encourage him to start expressing his own feelings and showing you that he wants you, in case he misses out on the opportunity and this stranger gets in first! A great way of showing a guy that other men find you attractive is to organize a night out with your girlfriends and some guys (not just his mates), dole yourself up a bit and let your hair down. Seeing you in action – on the playing field so to speak will definitely wake him up!
- Keep Him Wanting More – When he does start to chase you and you’re happy with the way things are going, don’t give in and go back to doting on him. Maintain everything you have achieved. Keep him guessing. Don’t give him everything he wants all at once. Focus on remaining independent and you should be able to stay in control and have him chase you as far you want, for as long as you want Source: youqueen.com