According to a leading internet divorce and separation resource website- 50-60% of committed men and 45-50% of committed women engage in extramarital affairs at some point in their relationships. No, we are not trying to scare you by these statistics, but just making you more aware of certain facts. We all know that a strong relationship is based on love, trust and understanding. However, there may have been occasions, where you felt that your spouse was hiding things from you. Does that mean, he/she is cheating on you? Follow these tricks to get the right clues to your question.
Put on your ‘Thinking Cap‘
You asked your partner a simple question ‘Why he/she comes late at home? And, there comes the most elaborate reply on it. Not just this, they are also ready with a solid alibi, with friends to back them up on this. Bang on! Just Think, why your partner is trying to prove innocence over something so small? Also, honest people do not need their colleagues or friends to intervene on their behalf.
Listen carefully
Body language
Certain Signs:
- Fidgeting.
- Starts scratching head.
- Makes no eye-contact.
- Grabbing a newspaper to hide face.
- Switches on the TV.
Ask the ‘Question’ again
Actions needed on regular basis:
- Check odometer: You can check this before and after the trip, to see, if the mileage correlates to where your partner says he/she has been.
- Credit Card Details: Look for the charges of hotels, shopping, boutiques etc. Match the dates with the calendar to see, those items were bought for you or someone else.
- Look at the Clothes: Is there a sudden change in his sense of dressing? Is she doing too much of lingerie shopping?
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