You are probably in your mid 30s or early 40s. The biological clock is ticking and you are desperate to settle down.
You have a well-paying job, a nice house. You are a professional or business success. However, you score badly in matter of the heart. Reason? You are scared of attracting women who are only after your money.
This is the dilemma most men find themselves in. Torn between a ‘real woman’ or the gold-digger type. The assumption that all women are after their money is men’s code of belief.
It takes two to tango
Lets face it. Most women date for materialistic possessions. They want a man to pamper them, buy them gifts and pay her bills. It will be tough luck to find a woman who doesn’t have these expectations.
Recently I was having a chat with a pal of mine who ranted how women are after his money. I wondered why he was complaining about things he tolerates and attracts.
He had no one else but himself to blame for how he was being treated. I mean it takes two to tango, right? In order to attract someone worth keeping in your life you have to emit the energy that attracts the person you want into your life.
Sampling the cookies
You can’t simply go through life, letting everyone that gives you attention into your life or just sampling the cookies in the jar.
Ladies, not every man who asks for your number is worth giving the number to. Men are hunters and they will chase a woman they want to get (depending on what they want). And it’s up to you to decide if you are going to let a guy win. Some women fall for any man who gives them attention because they fear being alone but who said being single is bad?
Men, if all you keep attracting is a woman, who wants you for your money, you need to re-evaluate your actions. If you constantly flash money and talk big about what you can do for a woman, then those are the kind women you will attract.
A good number of women have financial muscle, and are least excited by a man who knows nothing but to brag about fat bank accounts. The thing is, tone down the bragging and you will soon have them next to you.
Dating isn’t complicated, it all depends on you. An informed man approaches the dating game with his eyes wide open. I am not saying that you have to be demanding about how someone treats you, but if you are content with who you are, and are emitting the right energy, then that is what you will attract.
Source: SDE