Raising girls is hard work, well, raising kids in general can be hard work. It can be frightening because as parents, we want to protect our children but the reality is, there is only so much we can do. So, here are 12 things mothers of girls should know.
1. Your makeup is now her makeup
Young girls really like doing makeovers on themselves. With time, lessons will have to be taught on applying less but for now, it’s just for fun.
2. Telling them about periods is really uncomfortable and awkward, but I want her to be prepared for when it happens.
It’s your job to be open about your body and what’s going to change with her body. She needs to be comfortable talking to someone about it and it should be you.
3. The world will try to get them to grow up too fast and it’s your job to keep them girls as long as possible.
4. Encourage and support the relationship with their father
Your daughter needs you as her mother but she needs to know a man loves her so she doesn’t fall for a boy pretending too.
5. Teach them the value of saving money so that hopefully, someday, they won’t have to depend on anyone to take care of them financially.
6. Be careful how you talk about your body in front of them
You will become their example for how women should view their bodies. Speak kindly about yourself in front of them.
7. Protect them but also teach them to stick up for themselves
The world needs more strong women. Your daughter should know you will always have her back but she also has to learn how to deal with her own problems.
8. Compliment your daughter on things other than her beauty or appearance
She needs to know there is more to her self-worth than beauty. So tell her she’s smart or funny or kind. Things that won’t fade with time.
9. Set boundaries in your life with how people treat you
We are their greatest teachers and they learn from what we do more than what we say. So, if you are strong and demand being treated well, there is a better chance she will grow up and do the same.
10. Follow your own dreams and passions
Set the example that what you love to do is important so she will believe in her own dreams and passions.
11. Teach them to be smart when it comes to being around men and boys
Leaning to trust your instincts and gut feelings is important.
12. Help them realize that their body is to be valued and treated with respect
Have open and honest conversations about relationships and how they should and should not be treated.
Source: Familyshare.com