More and more men are developing an interest in improving their oral sex skills, but since this is still sort of a taboo subject among guys, it is difficult to actually learn from others how giving head helps their sex life and relationships.
In case you are doubting your need of honing and being an expert in this skill, here are five reasons why it is a good idea.
1. Back up plan
Performing oral sex can serve as a great back-up plan during sex. You might be faced with a situation where you have orgasmed, or want to make sure she does before you do, oral sex is the way to go. More women can orgasm from oral sex alone and only very few cum from penetrative sex, so going down on her is more than a favour, it is a one-way trip to an intense orgasm land. So basically, giving her head gives you an almost 100 percent guarantee that you have a partner who cums every time you are together.
2. Size issues
If you are on the smaller side, dick-size-wise, then oral sex should definitely be your special weapon. A guy who is small and cannot satisfy his partner using the basic oral sex tips is as good as useless in the bedroom. So, get yourself this special skill and your partner would not even notice your dick size, she has already been blown away by the wonder that is your tongue.
3. Ejaculation issues
If you are one to cum too early, or if your woman needs a lot more time to warm up (as most women do) than you do, then you absolutely need to be versed in the oral sex giving skill. Women take a lot longer to warm up and most times, men are usually almost done when she is just getting into the groove of things. This makes it more likely that you might cum before she is ready, leaving her flat and dissatisfied. Your head-giving skill should go to the rescue.
4. Speed up foreplay
There are a few reasons why you would want to speed up the foreplay process with your partner. Perhaps you are short of time and you prefer a quickie, or you are really horny and cannot devote as much time to it, whatever the case, oral sex will get you through it faster. She does not need to be wet for you to begin, since your weapon (your mouth) already comes wet. Giving her head instantly gets her turned on and excited, especially if you a pro at working that clitoris with your tongue. So, given a few seconds, you’ve got a woman that is ready to go.
5. Gladly reciprocated
There is no happy woman than one who had just received the oral sex of her life. At this point, she is feeling very giving and would want to do something to repay the sweet favour. Sure, she might give you blow jobs at other times, but when it comes after you have rocked her world with your mouth, you will be getting a more enthusiastic blowjob. She will give it more effort and ensure that you are also having the time of your life. Who can say ‘no’ to that?
Source: Pulse.ng