So what do you need to change? Here are three simple suggestions:
Put down the iPhone!
Seriously, stop fiddling and tapping on that darn cell phone screen of yours. Do you really think men are going to come and talk to you? Most guys will take one look at you and say, “She looks like she’s too busy to chat. Or maybe she’s working or texting her boyfriend. I won’t bother approaching her.”
And here’s the other thing…
Whilst you’re messing with your phone, you can’t see what and who is around you. You can’t see that cute guy who’s trying to catch your eye from across Starbucks. While you have your head buried in Twitter and Facebook, you’re missing so many opportunities to meet people.
Loosen up!
Now, you don’t need to go nuts and start flashing your breasts to every man you see, but give at least some small indication you’re open to the idea of communication with other human beings. Keep your shoulders back, your head up, and your arms by your side.
I see so many women who stand around with their arms folded across their chest, and it says, “Stay the hell away from me. I do not want to talk!”
Folded arms make you look very defensive, and whether you realize it or not, it will put guys off. So relax a little. Take in everything around you. Open yourself up, and most importantly…
Smile!
Guys are like big children and dogs. We need visual clues that it’s OK to approach you. Remember, it takes most guys a lot of courage to come and approach a woman, so anything you can do to take the pressure of us the better.
A smile tells us you’ve noticed us. A smile tells us you’re open. And a smile gives us an indication you’re not going to attack us if we approach you. If you see a man you like the look of, throw him a smile, and see how fast he comes to say “Hi.”
So you see ladies, it’s that simple!
You already know how to attract men. You do it naturally just by being strong, beautiful females. The real question is, “How can I get a man to feel he can approach me?”
And now, you have the answers!
Source: Yourtango.com
