By Our Reporter
Lots of guys keep wondering, how do I transition for the kiss? To some it’s easy, like eating food, to others it’s hard science. In fact most men struggle around this point. A kiss is the key that opens all the other doors. If you can kiss her, you can do anything with her.
So I was trying to deconstruct the whole process of kissing a girl. I will do my best to break down this art and science for newbies to get well versed with it. One important reminder, kissing is a skill that gets better with time. After kissing a number of girls, suddenly you will realize it’s no big deal, it’s something that can happen anywhere at anytime with any girl.
So you are having a cool conversation with this girl that you’re attracted to. How do you transition to a kiss?
One of the things I do is to lower my voice, and begin interspacing my words with pauses. It’s something that I do unconsciously without realizing that I am doing it.
After sometime, I make eye contact with her, stop saying anything then go in as if I am sniffing her hair. Half way down this journey, if her head doesn’t turn, our lips would lock and the kiss will happen.
In some rare instances, this year, only two instances of the sort, a girl will reject you with turning her head. This is to show that she’s not yet into the kiss, which means you have to continue with vibing her and attracting her with your words then keep repeating that process of pauses and silences as you make eye contact with her.
Normally, she will try to break the silence by asking why you’re quiet or why you are looking at her in that way or what you are thinking about. If she does, she’s definitely already thinking about kissing you.
This is the fastest way to do it. The other way could be through teasing and playing with her. Your phone could come in handy, taking selfies pecking each other and then actually interlocking your lips and voila, business done.
My last piece of assault if a girl has failed to fall for the first kissing attempts is usually at that moment when I am hugging her. I passionately squeeze her to me, look her in the eyes and pause, say a few words then have the kiss. Of course all this takes confidence, a girl will detect any slight sense of nervousness and will instantly reject you with that dreaded head turn.
My rule is, for any girl, if you think you could have kissed her, then you should have. The importance of kissing girls is that it helps you to not waste your time on dead ends and to know which girls are really worth pursuing. If she can’t kiss you on the first date, it’s stupid to keep suggesting a second date. You should always kiss close her on the first date.
Till next time, keep locked here.
