Sometimes we say more during s ex when we say nothing?
How? Well, like they say. “Action Speaks Louder Than Words” and there is always more to be found in between lines.
This philosophy holds true in the bedroom too, especially as it concerns women who are less vocal over bedroom affairs.
Even when nothing is said, there are some things that a man can look at and gauge her reception of the sexual experience.
Here we go:
1. How much do she initiate? Men ‘listen’ to your actions in the bedroom and surmise based on these. For example, a woman who helps a man unbuckle his belt or unzip his trousers is more involved than the one that lies back. Also, a woman that asks him to undress her is not the same as one that tears off her clothes and tears off his too. Men like an active woman, but sometimes, being the lazy “do it to me” woman once in a while is not a bad idea.
2. How does her body move? Body movement during sex, right from foreplay, says a lot. If a woman pulls back from a touch, or takes her lips away from a kiss or has her hands over her boobs… it says a lot about her mindset. Now, assume she curls her legs around his body, pulls him down for a kiss or jerks and turns to his touch or pressed her body against you. Bottom line is that men read your movement so watch it, don’t pretend but be cautious.
3. How do her eyes communicate? Eyes say a lot, especially female eyes. Is she looking into his eyes or avoiding his? Does she ‘eye’ his body parts? Is she closing her eyes in time with his thrusting? Eyes speak a lot.
4. How is her breathing? A woman’s arousal is often shown in her breathing pattern. It may be heavier as arousal heightens, her voice goes a little bit hoarse or she just simply can’t talk again. Again, false breathing/panting soon becomes noticeable and that signifies she’s faking and not really enjoying it.
On a final note:
- Guys it must be noted though that some people are great actors in the bedroom so it may not be enough to watch a woman’s movements alone – sometimes, it is simply better to ask questions to be sure.
- Ladies, instead of acting out sometimes, simply be vocal and say what you want because sex is collaborative – show and say what you feel because it helps the guy mentally. Communication is key to sexual bliss.
Source: Naijas.com
