You don’t have to waste months or even weeks on the wrong guy. As much as we want to believe that a man’s undesirable qualities come “out of the blue,” they’re usually there all along, even on the first date.
Here are 5 clues to look out for on your first date:
Treats restaurant staff poorly
Rude, impatient and inconsiderate behaviour towards service staff is usually a clear indicator of what is to come. Service staff deserve the respect of everyone, even if their job is to provide service.
Body language
Does he seem preoccupied with himself or even his phone? Does he face you when you speak? Does he seem engaged with your company? If someone if interested in spending time with you, he’ll show it.
Reactions to unexpected circumstances
Your dinner reservation gets unexpectedly cancelled by the restaurant – does he flip out? Or, does he react calmly and suggests having dinner somewhere else?
Etiquette
One’s general etiquette: at the dining table or even as simple as holding the door for someone can give a general idea in upbringing and also hint to what’s important to him – the smaller details matter.
Graciousness
Saying thank-you when appropriate is always important. A sign of graciousness and generally, humbleness – someone who has those values is definitely a keeper.
Source: Capital FM
