No matter how you view it, sex is always on point.
Whether as a show of intimacy between two people in love or just a physical exchange, it’s always an item to consider in a relationship.
In fact, sex will be on the list of top 5 needs of most humans, except eunuchs and monks of course.
However, a good sex life — an interesting sex life, is dependent on how creative you and your partner are.
Else sex becomes mundane and, at some point, needless.
For those who want to keep it hot, here are 6 tips:
Do dirty talk and send naughty SMSs. The human system reacts to words because sounds, especially human, evoke emotions, sensations and blood flow to various regions. Depending on what is being said and the manner of saying, words could lead directly to passionate sex. So it is important to do dirty talk with your lover once in a while. This might be just talking about how you feel inside her or how you feel when he’s inside you. Or how you like to have his penis/nipple in your mouth. What you think about when you see him/her naked. This works even better as SMS when you are not within physical reach. It builds anticipation for hotter sex when you eventually connect.
Try using sex toys. This is a really naughty one. Sex toys are being seen as something for ‘bad people’ but they can really spice up your sex life is used rightly. Whether you get dildoes or vibrators, it can do a lot of positive damage. For example, a man could help his girl achieve orgasm using a vibrator and/or dildo. A butt plug could also be used for anal sex (both male and female). There are a lot of options, just be creative – safety first though!
Talk, exchange and act your fantasies. Everyone has that sex secret/fantasy they keep to themselves. Well, you may want to know your partners’ fantasy, and that will help you adjust to fit that need, and possibly help him or her achieve it. Ultimately, it also helps you get to know each other better for hotter, better sex.
Touch more, give and get a massage. The body reacts very well to touch – sensual touch. Instead of jumping into penetrative sex, try giving a massage first to can unlock his/her body. If done well, it can lead to some very earth-shaking orgasms. By the way, you don’t have to be a masseur to give the basic massage.
Blindfold him or her and do nasty things. Many people do not realize that the brain is the most important sexual. It is. Beyond that, the brain’s sexual functions actually get sharper when the eyes are shut – no distraction. So cover her/his eyes up and do nasty things to his/her body. The interesting thing is that he/he will not know what next you’re going to do, heightening tension and anticipation. Soft touches – your tongue, a feather, a rose petal, fingertips, will do a lot of merciless damage here.
It’s time to try a new position/location. It is always good to throw in new positions and locations into your sex life. Skip the regular position you are familiar with and also get out of your bedroom. Try doggy in the kitchen and something kinky in the shower, or get nasty with spooning on the living room rug. Just do the nasty!
Source: Pulse.ng