Most women prefer to date older men; they are more compatible romantically and come with a certain sense of maturity. However, being the older woman in a relationship comes with its own set of rules. The men are hotter and will love your experience, but their lack of maturity might just make you want to give up. Here are 10 things you must know before you enter cougar territory.
The sex: A definite pro, sex with a younger man means more experimenting and activeness in bed. It’s a known fact that men reach their sexual prime in their twenties while women reach theirs in their thirties. So a younger man certainly means more orgasms.
Stability: While this is a generalisation, a man in his early 20s won’t be too keen to go down on his knees any time soon. So if you are looking for commitment, it’s best to head over to that 30s club.
Fun relationship: An older man means classier restaurants and well-planned dates but if you are up for adventure, and hate routine, a younger man is a match made in heaven. He’ll bring out your youthful, vibrant side in the relationship.
Different lifestyles: Think bar crawls, all-night parties, pizza dinners and friends over always. Dating a man in his 20s can be much like reliving your PG days.
Lesser emotional baggage: While younger men are considered to be less mature, you are also saved from dealing with emotional baggage. Toxic ex-girlfriends or a disgruntled ex-wife won’t be on the scene.
Lack of skills: While the emotional baggage will be low, it also means that he will lack a set of relationship skills too. So forget sitting down and talking a problem through; you might end up with angrier fights.
He’s open-minded: He’ll be willing to experiment more, not just in the bedroom but outside too. So if you have any fantasies that you are too embarrassed to talk about, he’s your man.
Biological clock: Your biological clock is ticking away while he is not even thinking about kids. Don’t expect him to have daddy-like feelings any time soon in the relationship.
Less ego issues: Your experience will leave him impressed and he won’t shy away from asking for your advice or following it.
You’ll be forced to be the grown up: Forget throwing a tantrum and receiving flowers, it’ll most likely be the other way round.
Source: iDiva
