Sexy bedroom ‘spank and tickle’ play can be even more fun when you’re in “right” kinky sex positions.
Up against a wall – this one is a classic and you don’t have to do the whole hoisted-in-the-air thing to make it hot. Simply being pushed up against the wall and keeping both feet on the ground can have a powerful effect. Using body pressure to stay firm up against the wall will likely make you both feel deliciously illicit. Add some good hair gripping and it will be one of the most intense sex positions in your repertoire.
Woman bent over the bed with the woman under the blanket – this one is an easy and fun sex position for a couple of reasons. If it’s cold outside she can stay warm under the blanket and he can be behind her standing next to the bed. My experience (and what I’ve heard from the couples I coach) is that contradictory temperature needs can make hot and heavy sex, simply hot and heavy. Staying under the covers also makes for some fantastic ‘sensory deprivation’. It’s dark under there and just a little bit hard to breathe without being dangerous. It’s particularly good for those that have a hard time getting ‘out of their head’ during sex.
Man lying on his back, woman kneeling over his face – this is a very dominant sex position for oral sex, with the woman really taking control. She can raise herself or lower herself over his mouth to direct the exact stimulation she’s looking for. If balance is an issue she can use a wall to lean against and if he’s having a hard time breathing (a little more fun safety breath play!) he can just tap her shoulder to communicate needing a break. One of the intimate sex positions is for mutual masturbation. Lying next to each other or facing each other will allow both of you to see and feeling what is likely done during solo time. Leave the lights on or at least drape a (flame resistant) scarf over the lamps. Maybe burn some candles as long as they’re put somewhere safe. Experience looking at each other while you’re being sexual, watch how you touch yourselves and you’ll get better at touching each other.
Over the knee! Ok so this one is kind of pre sex position, but it still definitely counts as kinky and sexy. Being over your partners knee is a slightly vulnerable position, but sometimes sexual vulnerabilities can be a real turn on, for both of you. Over the knee is one of the best sex positions for manual stimulation, reaching underneath the bent over body for a naughty rub, and it’s great for a soft (or hard) spanking (oooo…kinky!)
So give one or more of these kinky sex positions a try to mix things up and keep sex exciting!
Source: Your Tango