Whether you’ve been dating the same woman for years, or you’ve only recently hooked up with your babe, sometimes guys have to initiate the excitement in a relationship to ensure that their women remain sexually interested — constantly.
Such a feat is sometimes difficult to accomplish, and if you and your woman aren’t on the same sex-drive page, chances are that getting her in the mood may prove to be near impossible.
But wait — there are a few ways to get her excited about lovemaking, or more specifically, five ways. Keep in mind, however, that for some women, spontaneity may be all they need to get worked up. If that’s the case for you, then surprise her occasionally with a formal night out (and in) or a lovemaking session in the car.
Now, on to five other ways to turn your woman on:
1- Set the scene
Yes, it’s time to get romantic; just don’t get crazy. After all, lighting a candle is romantic; lighting 100 candles is overkill. Keeping subtlety in mind, set the scene for a romantic interlude. Light a couple of candles, put some jazzy sounds on the stereo and cook up something light and tasty with which to indulge her oral senses.
Of course, the dish you create can be something as simple as strawberries and cream, or as complicated as a soufflé. You know her better than I do, so find out what she likes and give it to her — and I mean that in every way.
2- Sexualize conversations
Adding a little spice to mundane conversation can be quite enticing for many, and now’s your chance to get her mind working before you take her clothes off. Reveal some of the things you fantasize about doing to her; tell her how much you desire her body and miss her face on certain days; describe what the night has in store for her (and follow through — that’s very important); or make her tell you about her innermost desires.
Occasionally turning your conversations into sexual matters will lead to better communication and of course, better sex. Describing scenarios and fantasies will awaken your senses and help you better understand what your woman wants.
Dress her up and turn her on all day…
3- Buy her outfits
Whether you’re a big fan of sexy lingerie or a little black dress, buy her an outfit that will make her feel sexy and help you appreciate her more than you already do. Not only will she appreciate the fact that you took the time to get her a gift, she’ll be thrilled that you want to sex her up.
Sneak into her lingerie drawer and check out the sizes of a few of her “garments.” That way, you can ensure that she’ll look good in it when you rip it off her body (after she’s done doing her little dance for you).
4- Seduce her
It may seem obvious, but many guys aren’t aware that seduction is not simply about kissing and touching; it has a lot to do with how you affect a woman’s mind. A few sentences may be all you need to begin your seduction process.
Tell her something like, “I’ve been imagining myself undressing you all day.” Or better yet, drive her crazy by revealing that you were reminiscing about the last time you made love to her and it gave you an erection — and now you want to show her how excited you are to see her.
Once her brain is adequately filled with sensual and sexual images, begin the sensory seduction. Kiss her mouth lightly, massage her breasts, kiss her waist, massage her vagina, kiss her inner thighs, massage her legs — keep your mouth and hands busy before your penis takes over. Even then, give her multiple sensations by constantly moving your hands and mouth around her body.
5- Look sharp
A lot of men tend to stop taking care of themselves once they enter long-term relationships (and yes, the same goes for many women). But not you; you’re going to stay in shape, dress like a star, keep yourself well-groomed well into old age, and maintain the manners of a gentleman.
If you constantly look great, how can your woman not appreciate the man she has by her side? Make an effort to take care of your appearance; not just for her but for yourself as well. If you look good, you’ll feel good, which will make her feel good, which will keep your love life at its peak.
Keep on keeping on
Getting your woman in the mood doesn’t necessarily have to entail all kinds of bells and whistles, but there’s no doubt that doing things differently and keeping things fresh can spark a fire within her that makes seduction that much easier.
Who knows, maybe all this fancy footwork will encourage her to start seducing you for a change.
Until next time, keep on driving your lady mad.
Source: Askmen.com
