Every woman has the potential to be a freak. If, at this moment in time, her wild side is still lying dormant, it’s probably your own fault.
Here’s your definitive guide to awakening her inner she-devil.
1. Find her fetish: Inside every woman is a sexual beast just waiting to break free. It’s your job to diligently try them all with her. Dirty talk leave a bitter taste in her mouth? Maybe role-playing is more her style. Maybe she has a thing for spankings. It’s your job to figure out what her flavor of choice is, and encourage her to indulge.
2. No surprises: The key to a woman having positive associations with a new sexual experiences is making her feel safe and valued. Do not try something out without understanding her feelings about it first or she’ll feel like she’s been violated and disrespected, and it won’t bode well for your future sexual endeavors. If you want to do something you haven’t done before, always talk about it before you try it. Reassure her if she doesn’t like it, you’ll stop, no questions asked. Then, instead of having an angry woman on your hands, she’s open, ready, and willing.
3. Make her feel sexy: Confidence breeds freakiness. If your woman feels irresistible in her skin, and she knows you find every inch of her enticing, she wont hesitate to put herself in less than flattering positions, try weird things, or touch herself in front of you. She’ll have no doubts that you’re enjoying the show.
4. Work her up: Get her to the point of no return through foreplay and make your suggestions then. Take it to the next level when she’s physically and mentally amped, and she’ll be more open-minded and in the moment.
5. Encourage her: You should always encourage her kinks rather than attempting to guilt her into it. Pouting when she says no, or telling her how boring she is in bed, or likening sex with her to humping a corpse will not help you get what you want. Instead, reassure her. If she gets slightly freakier than usual one night, confess that you enjoyed the sex even more than usual. Tell her you find her most attractive when she’s uninhibited, and she’ll be more likely to keep bringing her freak-game to the table.
6. Find her fantasy: We can tell you right now that you will never find her inner-freak by trying to fulfill your own fantasies. The express route to freakdom is figuring out hers. Start by having an honest conversation about what turns her on. What does she think about when she’s alone in bed? Are there any things that turn her on that she’s never shared? Reassure her nothing is off-limits, and that nothing will offend you or disgust you.
7. Be selfless: Focus on her pleasure rather than yours. Make sure she’s orgasming and enjoying herself, every time. Be devoted to discovering her every erogenous zone. Find things that turn her on she didn’t realize existed. So when you suggest something new, she’ll know it’s not for selfish reasons, but because you truly think she’ll enjoy it.
8. Learn together: We know, we know. We’ve been focusing on her so much, but the truth is, you have a ton to learn yourself. You have secret spots and strange fantasies, too. The key to each of you finding fulfillment is figuring out what works together. Don’t just expect her to be open-minded; you have to take risks together.
Source: Pulse.ng