Wake up and put on some Usher, baby. It may just do the trick and boost your libido. Still not interested? For women, it’s not uncommon to need a little more than R&B and foreplay to turn us on. According to a study, women don’t enjoy sex as much as men do and orgasm less due to, well, being women!
Let’s turn this around, ladies! Here are some things you and your lover can do to get you in the mood for sex.
1. Feel beautiful: Women always feel sexier when their mate desires them, so slip into a nightie, negligee or kinky two-piece. Just make sure to rock whatever makes you feel most comfortable, as you don’t want to be insecure. Once you put on your outfit, strut your stuff and get ready for some sexy time.
2. Explore fantasies: Women rarely share their sexual needs and fantasies, and that’s a problem! I mean, how will your lover ever know how to satisfy you if you don’t share what turns you on? He won’t! Soon, you won’t want to have sex at all. To help him hit the spot, tell him one fantasy. Shy? Write down a sexual fantasy on a sheet of paper and leave it on his pillow. This will encourage him to initiate sex and create the setting you desire to be satisfied sexually.
3. Be affectionate: Rarely is a woman turned on just like that. We need to be caressed. Tell your partner to be more affectionate. Ask for a massage to get you in the mood. Caress him slowly with the tips of your fingertips, moving from his clavicle, down to his chest and belly button and, eventually, his penis. This will set the mood for lovemaking.
4. Masturbate — in front of him: You know your body. You know what revs you up. Use that inside information! Instead of waiting for him to play with your clitoris, touch yourself. Masturbate in front of him to create an intimate environment. Let him watch. If you can’t fathom touching yourself in front of your man, masturbate alone. When you’re ready, call him into the bedroom so you can finish together.
5. Sexting: Use technology to your advantage and sext your lover throughout the day, that way you’re both enticed and will rip each other’s clothes off when finally face to face. Afraid to show a boob over text? No worries. There’s an app for that! Flirtmoji will do the trick.
6. A little drinky drinky: Alcohol is known to loosen joints and unleash inhibitions. So drink a glass of wine (or two) to warm you up. Soon, your cheeks will flush, your legs will wobble and you’ll be extra flirty and open. Just make sure your partner is just as ready. Consent, ladies.
7. Read erotica: Grab your favorite sexy novel and get to reading underneath the sheets. Erotica is known to turn women on, and it’s even sexier when you read the prolific and often pornographic prose to your lover. Lay back, relax and lose yourself in the throes of a good erotic story. Your partner can even play with your vage while your favorite fictional character gets it in. Now that’s sexy!
Source: Latina.com