If something seems amiss in your s*xual relationship with your partner, it’s possible that he is compulsively using Internet P0*n or s*xual connection with others in a destructive way.
There are warning signs you might see if your partner is having a problem with sexually compulsive behavior:
1. He may spend a lot of private time on his computer, his phone or at work.
Working long hours could be a cover for compulsive viewing of Internet P0*n. When you notice your partner is on the computer, he may turn it off or flip to another page. He may set up secret or hidden email accounts. He also may hide his cell phone to avoid your detection of his phone calls or text messages
2. In general, his demeanor may change.
You may notice that he’s acting differently. He may become more secretive, private, unreliable, critical or irritable. He might not be as social as he used to be and there may be unexplained absences. You may feel like you just don’t get straight answers anymore.
3. You may experience a lack of connection and intimacy.
Your partner may not seem available to you and you may feel he’s avoiding you. He seems tuned out or lost.
4. Your s*xual interactions with your partner may change.
Your partner may become uncharacteristically, demanding or rough sexually. He may require more and more stimulation or he may become unresponsive sexually and cease initiating s*x. He may develop a preference for self service.
5. His relationship to his body may change.
He may become overly concerned with his man-hood — with caring for, touching, adjusting his pants, or exposing his anatomy.
6. Money might become an issue in your relationship.
If he is spending money on P0*n, prostitutes, or other illicit s*xual activities there may be a lack of funds or unexplained expenses.
7. He may be sexually unfaithful.
Not every s*xual betrayal is a sign of s*xual addiction, however, if your partner is engaging sexually with another or others and is not stopping, even if he says he wants to, he probably has an issue with s*xual compulsivity.
Unfortunately, there is no magically revealing or definitive list that will let you know without question that your partner has an issue with s*x addiction. You may see all of these signs, other signs, or none of them. These behaviors could point to other addictions or other issues or they could point to an affair.
Source: Information Nigeria
