To be better in bed, you will need to be more adventurous, spice things up.
Spicing things up doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve got to buy tonnes of sex toys or doing more acrobatic positions that can make your back kill you.
Some of these hacks are actually very simple, how to manage your sexual resources better, think of yourself as a sex manager, who knows how to deploy what skills to achieve the maximum sexual pleasure.
1. Know your partner’s body
This may sound simple, but it is important. You need to find out how your partner’s sexual anatomy works, how to pleasure her using different sensitive parts of the body such as the neck, earlobes, boobs, navel, genital and any other sexual hotspots. Most of all this information are not available in what is being taught in regular academy such as school.
You won’t get in depth knowledge about it in biology class. You can sit with her and understand her body from her point of view.
2. Be the scientist in bed
Honestly, some of the best things are discovered by accident. By accident, I mean you weren’t planning on it, It just happened as you’re trying to do something else. To achieve this, you will need to try things in ways that you’ve not tried them before, put yourself in situations that you’ve never been. What you have to take into consideration is that you have to prepare your mind that it may not work out well.
Having this in mind will help you alleviate the pressure of performing, and allow you and your partner feel relaxed and enjoy it.
3. Master the move with your hand
If you follow the Star Trek movies, then you must know about the vulcan salute. The hand gesture is when you have you hand out finger spread out, and then index finger and middle finger together and the last two fingers meshed together with a space in between them. Use this hand gesture to get even more intimate with your partner. You can use this gesture during during missionary.
Here is what you do, Put the two fingers on either sides of the penis, as the penis thrusts back and forth, the penis will rub against the knuckle, the clitoris will get more friction too, which can make her get orgasm quicker.
4. The Leg squeeze
When a woman is about to climax, there is an intense need to squeeze their leg, and it is all natural as well. Ladies can even do this better, by crossing the legs then squeezing even harder. What this does is to wake up the core muscles during orgasm and make the feeling even better.
During penetrative sex, the guy will enjoy the fit and improved friction the lady is creating.
5. Start the Outercourse
The opposite of intercourse, this is sexual without penetration. If there is any penetration, some people don’t count this as sex, but that’s a topic for another day. The last time you probably did this was when you didn’t want to have sex yet, you can stick with rubbing your bodies against each other either while watching tv or at a party. The friction is good, and the passion it generates will lead to the sex becoming very satisfying. You can do grabbing as well, playing grab ass.
It can lead to other things such as erotic massage or even mutual masturbation. Things can really go anywhere.
6. Be spontaneous
Some of the best sex are those ones that happen in impromptu way. When it happens in a moment’s thing. You’re busy with life and all the goals you’ve set for yourself, especially if you’ve got kids. Finding time can be a big deal. So, if you’ve got a few minutes to spare, you totally take it by having sex with your partner.
Source: Pulse.ng
