To many people, being skilled at sex is just a matter of knowing about the 1 billion sex moves. Funny…
While your knowledge of sex position can come in handy, there are some very simple things you could do to become a sex god or goddess in your partners’ reckoning.
It is just a combination of dos and don’ts that are guaranteed to change the way you partner views you sexually.
Good thing is that they do not require anything other than the will…
Judge not. One of the biggest mistakes people do, especially with regular partners is judging their sexual preferences. It is very important that you allow your partner express his/her fantasy and be open to different desires and turn-ons. When you listen, and comply as much as you can, to your partner’s sexual needs, he or her sees you in a more positive light —sexually at least.
Make a joyful noise. Sounds are part of the sexual experience. So talk dirty. If you want to make a sexual experience more memorable, then know when to moan and make other coital sounds — it is considered sexy. It is also major turn on for many men (and women too). For a woman, you might give him sexual orders like “harder”, “yes, right there” and other sounds. It goads and motivates.
Stay fit. This is not rocket science. The more flexible and fit you are, the better your chances of given a better sexual performance when duty calls. So you might consider exercising is good because it boosts your libido and gets you ready for the challenging bedroom moves.
Love your neighbour. The ultimate commandment of sex is to be able to put your partner’s sexual needs above yours from time to time. If you notice that your partner likes a particular sex position, oral sex, or likes to have sex at a particular time, then oblige him or her. It doesn’t mean you should exist for them alone, just once in a while. Your partner would surely love it.
Be creative. You should be able to use the things you see around the house as sex toys/enhancements. For example, the edge of your bathtub could become a prop for doggie style just as your belt could be a bondage tool for those who like it rough.
Reciprocate. It is important that you make it a habit to reciprocate in bed. For example, if you get oral sex, give it back, in full measure.
Source: Pulse.ng
