It is easy for women to fall in love, given their emotional nature. But, what is important is to remain in love. Before we are head over heels in love with a special someone and are ready to say “I do”, it is important that we assess what we want from a relationship. Here is a list of men who would certainly ring a bell in your heart, but would they be available for a lifetime commitment? Find out for yourself.
1. The Yes man
Isn’t that every woman’s dream, a wide-eyed guy who agrees with everything you say or do! We get it that he adores you and can do anything for you but the downside is that they are insecure within. They have the fear of losing people around them and suffer from self-esteem issues. Over the time their insecurity might start showing up, leading to tensions between both of you. And it is true; you would never respect a man with a low self-esteem. So, say goodbye while it is still good or you both would only end up with bad memories.
2. Older men
It is a known fact that such men bring a lot of experience with them. The good side is that they provide a sense of security to women because of their self-confidence. But the downside is that he might be going through a midlife crisis and might be in this relationship for fun and frolic. As long as you are both on the same page it is good for you, so go ahead and enjoy it. But if you are dreaming of walking down the aisle with him then good luck because along with the good experiences of life he is also loaded with a lot of emotional baggage! When reality would strike in, there might be times he would look at you as immature or unexperienced; or expect you to match his level of maturity.
3. Younger men
Let us admit it, younger men bring a breath of fresh air in the relationship. They are full of energy and enthusiasm, which makes the relationship more exhilarating! But enter this relationship with your eyes and ears open. Younger men will not be ready to settle down fast and time might not be on your side. Also, make sure that your guy is not looking for a mother figure because in that case this relationship is going downhill. So, until and unless you are sure where this relationship is heading, it might be a good decision to keep your emotions under a check.
4. Male chauvinist
We have all dreamt of a perfect guy who full of chivalry. Opening doors, paying bills, pulling out chairs…all these thoughtful gestures will propel any lady’s heart through the sky. But before losing your heart in this relationship and dreaming of a happily ever after, you should be aware that there is a fine line between chivalry and chauvinism. Actions that you perceive as thoughtful might be his way of thinking that you might not be capable of taking care of yourself. Such a relationship will be devoid of mutual respect and understanding, which is certainly what you don’t want from a marriage.
5. The eye candy
Women have been termed as being eye candies for so many years, so wouldn’t it be fun to turn the tables on men for a change? At some point of time we all want someone who would make our friends envious of us. While having such a person around you, will fill you with pride but the question to ask is, do you enjoy each other’s company in private? Because when parties would cease you would want a meaningful and loving relationship. So get away from superficiality and make way for a real and healthy relationship.
Source: Information Nigeria
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