In today’s world, sex isn’t only about a man and a woman or even a human and another human. Some folks get off on sleeping with blow-up dolls. Others are attracted to the same sex. Then there are those who don’t feel that one partner at a time is enough. And there we have the threesome — every man’s fantasy and every woman’s nightmare. But wait, is it?
If you want to join the three-way fun, here’s how to choose the right partner for a threesome:
1. A Friend of a Friend of a Friend
Of a friend! The less friendly you are the better that way it doesn’t complicate your friendship and that of your mutual friends. But you do want someone that you know — a familiar face, let’s say. It will be less awkward when you ask him or her to jump into bed with you and your guy (or girl). Being around them from time to time pre-sex will also help gauge whether they are attracted to you, or your idea.
2. A Long Distance Companion
What better person to elicit for a threesome than someone who lives in a far away land? You will probably never see them again after getting your fix and that may be a relief if it’s just a one-time thing. Maybe that friend of a friend of a friend lives in España. How sexy is it to three-way and then hit the clubs of Barcelona? Olé indeed!
3. Hygiene, Please
Hygiene is very important. When choosing a threesome partner, make sure their private parts smell like a Peppermint Patty. You know, so fresh and so clean!
4. STD Free
Get tested! You may be in a relationship, but threesome sex means another person (and all their past sexual partners) will be all in your genital mix. You, your significant other, and your new sex buddy should be STD free. But what if this threesome happens spontaneously, you ask? Sex it up at your own risk.
5. Someone Less Hotter Than You
No woman wants a threesome to ruin their relationship…forever. Sex can create intimacy, which is why you shouldn’t have a personal connection with your threesome partner. And they shouldn’t be hotter than you or your significant other. If she looks better than you naked, she shouldn’t join your boudoir party. If he looks better than your partner naked, you may want to jump on that more than on your man. The less hot the threesome partner, the better your chances of keeping your current partner all to yourself, particularly after the sex. So, enjoy the fun with an average looking gal or guy and then kick them to the curb. Now that’s a beautiful (threesome) fantasy.
Source: Latina.com
