Close Menu
  • Home
  • Celebrity Gossip
  • Entertainment News
  • Featured
  • Photo News
  • Advertise with Us
  • About Us
  • Privacy Policy
Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram YouTube WhatsApp
Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram YouTube WhatsApp TikTok
BigEye.UG
Subscribe
  • HOME
  • CELEBRITY GOSSIP
  • ENTERTAINMENT
  • PHOTO NEWS
  • VIDEO NEWS
  • MONEY
    • Money
    • Features
BigEye.UG
Home»Relationships»5 Skills YOU Need To Create Real Intimacy With Your Man
Relationships

5 Skills YOU Need To Create Real Intimacy With Your Man

BigEyeUg3By BigEyeUg3July 23, 2015
Share
Facebook Twitter Telegram WhatsApp

couple happyIntimacy is more than just swoony, lovey-dovey eye contact. True intimacy is powerful and requires these key skills from BOTH partners:

1. Self-Awareness
You must know who you are so you don’t project your own insecurities and neurotic tendencies onto your lover. For instance, I realized a few years ago, that I kept getting irritated with my husband over small things and that my irritation was very similar to the way my mom used to behave toward my father. Once I made that connection I was able to stop myself from acting unfairly toward my husband — or at least I realized why I was acting that way and could control it.

2. Self-Knowledge
Intimacy only happens when both partners are present in a relationship and can relate to each other from their authentic selves. When you’re acting and not being your real self, then you and your partner can’t truly connect in an honest, meaningful way.

3. Self-Acceptance
Self-acceptance is the process of learning to love yourself with all of your flaws. We are all human. We all have those parts of ourselves that we are not proud of, but we might as well accept them because they are part of what makes us who we are. Once you are able to love yourself, you’ll feel more open and receptive to the love your partner gives you.

4. Self-Exposure
This is the core interactive skill that builds intimacy. Is there anything you are afraid to express, to share or to ask for? Why? Is it too soon? Possibly, but as you get deeper into a relationship, you must open yourself up fully to your partner. You don’t need to agree. You just need to respect each other’s differences. If you continue being honest with each other, even in conflict and difference, you’ll each learn more about each other and yourself. And this is where real bonding happens.

5. Self-Responsibility
This is the crux of adult relationships and the primary reason you need to develop all these other skills. Self-responsibility includes recognizing your own needs and being responsible enough to express them and act in positive ways that support them being met. This includes knowing that a relationship doesn’t have the potential for deep intimacy and choosing to leave so that you can make space in your life for someone else.

Source: Information Nigeria

Related

dating
Share. Facebook Twitter WhatsApp Email
Previous ArticleUgandan music enjoying massive airplay on Trace TV
Next Article 4 Ways Happy Couples Stay Blissfully In Love

Related Articles

Grace Khan Opens Up on Forgiving Prince Omar and Choosing Co-Parenting

Ziza Bafana Opens Up About Close Relationship with Nina Roz

Zari Hassan Says Shakib Has Her in a “Chokehold” but She Can Still Move On If It Ends

Zuena Reveals She Didn’t Know Bebe Cool Was a Minister’s Son When They First Met

Frank Gashumba Praises Fiancée Malaika, Urges Caution in Choosing a Marriage Partner

Hajat Kulthum Officially Announces Divorce from Acram Gumisiriza

Latest News

Levixone thrills revelers at Kwegonza Avenue

July 27, 2025

What you missed at the Cantina Fiesta

July 27, 2025

Levixone Proposes to Desire Luzinda: “My Best Friend Said Yes”

July 26, 2025

Norbert Events Cries Foul After NRM Primary Loss: “I Was Robbed”

July 26, 2025

Iryn Namubiru Recounts Silent Grief After Japan Ordeal and Father’s Death

July 26, 2025
Follow Us
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • YouTube
  • TikTok
  • WhatsApp
BigEye.UG
Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram YouTube WhatsApp TikTok
  • Sitemap
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact Us
© 2025 BigEye.UG | All Rights Reserved

Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.