As you get older, a lot of different changes begin to occur. Some of these changes are manifested in your sex life. Sex in your 20’s is so much different from sex in your 30’s.
For most men, their 20’s is more about experimenting, it is in their 30’s that they get more sexually mature and feel the actual confidence in the bedroom.
Here are five sexual changes you might experience as you get older.
1. Your partner’s pleasure becomes important
Studies have shown that men have a hormonal peak around the age of 18, this is very different from a performance peak, which happens much later in your life. Once your testosterone is not raging so much, many men are invested in pleasuring their partner, as well as themselves. This means that those evenings where you finish much too fast or you give up trying to get her off will start decreasing quickly. Why? You aren’t purely driven by the own chemicals in your body, but by a great experience for you both.
2. You start to understand what she likes
By age 30, you have likely had a number of sexual experience, whether with the same or different partners. From the good and bad experience with those partners, you’ve learned how to tune in to a woman’s body and read the signals she’s giving you that’ll help you get her – and you – to orgasm. You have an increased awareness of her movement and the verbal cues of what is turning her on and what isn’t working. This means you’re better at making her happy.
3. You are more relaxed
When it comes to sex, at this stage in life, you’re more patient about not only when it happens, but how long it lasts and how you take your time to get to know someone. Patience definitely becomes a virtue. You now have a more relaxed attitude and pace, which results in a less rushed and more enjoyable mutual experience.
4. You crave connection
Even if you’ve had those booty-call (or friends-with-benefits) types of relationships with past girls, these days you probably don’t have quite the same energy level to put up with the drama that comes with casual sex. Instead, when you do get it on with a woman, you actually enjoy spending time together – either cuddling or talking – after you both finish. Although some men obviously hop on, hop off and then go to sleep, many men over 30, make a point to have quality time after sex together.
5. Your whole life is not just about sex
You also find that you do not think about sex as often as you used to. As men age, their responsibilities grow, making sex less of a major priority. Many men have settled into a career, children and marriage, or are starting to make plans to do that. These can create distance and pressure that takes away from their sex life because they are tired, stressed and have other things on their mind. While things might not be as carefree as they once were in their relationship and sex life, when they are intimate, they savour the experience more.
Source: Pulse.ng
