Flirting is an acquired talent. Not everyone is talented enough to showcase this skill successfully. That is why, very often your cheesy pickup lines and sleazy comments fail to work and impress the ladies. Your actions maybe misread and your suggestions might get misinterpreted, all this happens because you are sending out the wrong signals. Here are some basic rules that are going to turn you down on a gentleman’s path. So, flirt like a true gentleman and win over your lady.
Every woman dreams of finding a gentleman. Chivalry and courtesy are qualities every woman searches for in her man. So, be a gentleman and treat your girl with respect. Get ready to open doors for her, pull out her chair and call her cab. Buy her a small present (nothing too big or expensive) to show that you care for her. Also, do not be a miser, always take the first initiative to pick-up the check on your date. Learn the art of whispering your words softly and intelligently.
Always offer to drop your lady home, especially if it is night-time. Even if you do not own a car, still accompany her to her place. Walk her to her doorsteps, but never invite yourself in, until she asks you. After this comes an important decision that will define your relationship- whether you land a friendly kiss on her cheek or approach her for a passionate embrace. Be observant enough to see and read her signs. Be careful, because you don’t want to get your signals mixed-up. And, if not sure, walk away (better to be safe than sorry).
It is very important for a girl that her guy should not only be well-mannered but well-groomed as well. So, think before you turn into an obnoxious drunk slob or a smoking machine. Your bad habits can seriously turn-off any woman. Girls also prefer men who smell nice and who look sharp. Pick-out a good perfume for your night with the lady (but don’t even dream of slathering yourself in a feminine fragrance). Look smart and sharp always. You don’t want to leave a shabby impression on your girl.
There cannot be anything more irritating than a shrill cell phone ring, while you are making a move on the girl. And, there cannot be anything more boring than a man who is over-occupied with his calls while he is out on a date. Also, don’t be desperate to display your dating life on the social networking. Slowly chew your way into her social life. You need to make a girl feel comfortable by impressing her with your conversation and sense of humour.
Your approach towards her will mark the difference between – “Oh! He is just some guy I knew” and “The guy I really want to know.” If you have serious plans about her then be careful not to move too fast, otherwise you will be branded as desperate. Show your respect towards her and stick to your boundaries.
Source: Bollywoodshaadis.com
